20
Jun

ChnLove Chinese online dating review

Like any foreigner looking to meet a Chinese wife, I’m trying online dating. I’ve spent hundreds of hours and dollars browsing online dating websites just to meet the perfect Chinese lady to put a ring on her finger.

So far, my search continues, but I’ve accumulated enough online dating wisdom to put it together and share my online dating experience. I’ve been on this long journey for 4 years. That’s 2 serious relationships with two sexy Chinese women that unfortunately didn’t work out and 1 marriage that… well, I ruined it.

I’ve been a victim of online dating scams, I had a few hundred dollars stolen from me because I was foolish enough to click the wrong link from this fake Chinese lady that tricked me into thinking that she was in love with me… Listen, I’ve been through it all.

Chinese lady

I’ve seen fake and real Chinese women, I’ve been offered pay-for-sex deals by Chinese hookers. I’ve chatted with women that refused to talk via Webcam Live Chat because… well, the people I chatted with weren’t the women on their online dating profiles.

Been there, done that. Seen that, experienced it all. As I can’t take back all those years I lost in the online dating world, I don’t regret anything. Because now I’m able to share my wisdom and experience with other people venturing out into the mysterious, and oftentimes not-so-pretty world of online dating.

This was my impression about online dating until I signed up on ChnLove. “Oh, another online dating China website with fake ladies… Bring it on!” I thought. Much to my surprise, ChnLove turned out to be the most decent and the most REAL online dating service that exists on the Internet today.

Yes, it’s a little bit expensive, but I think paying a bit more for the actual opportunity to browse through authentic China lady profiles is better than spending a bit less and not being sure if the person you’re chatting with is even a woman!

online dating scams

One of the things I like about ChnLove the most is that it offers its own translation services, which makes it much easier to interact with Chinese ladies. Most other Chinese online dating services don’t have that — but they definitely should.

Because let me tell you something: it’s not fun to be reading obviously-Google translated sentences by a Chinese lady who speaks little to no English and then sit there like an idiot for hours trying to decipher what the hell she means there? Is it a ‘yes’ or is that a ‘no’?

Anyway, that ridiculous Google translate circus ended when I started using ChnLove, and it became much easier for me to interact with Chinese ladies. So it’s definitely a big PLUS for ChnLove.

I had certain reservations about ChnLove when I signed up there, as I’ve been reading all kinds of comments on the Internet claiming ChnLove was a ‘scam’ website.

Well, from my point of view – the point of view of a person who has tried at least 5 other Chinese online dating services over the years – ChnLove is the least ‘scam’ than all other online dating platforms out there.

Sure, there are still scammers on ChnLove trying to steal your personal information and/or money, but aren’t they everywhere? That’s the world today: people are trying to scam you in every way possible.

But what’s most notable is that while I was ripped off on other online dating websites, I’ve never been a victim of any type of scam on ChnLove. You can’t really blame any dating site for there are no right people for you or your date there scammed you. I mean, it happens. Especially if you don’t be alert.

There are plenty of gold diggers and prostitutes out there – but most Chinese women I’ve chatted with on ChnLove (and that’s over 20 ladies) were authentic, as I usually ask for real-life pictures and chat with them via webcam to ensure that the lady is real.

I’ve had enough of that fake bullshit on other online dating websites, which is why I encourage other users to follow my strategy of spotting fakes on ChnLove.

These two years that I’ve been using ChnLove I have not received any suspicious link or file that could steal my personal data if I clicked on it. So that means ChnLove actually keeps an eye on that sort of stuff and verifies the profiles of Chinese women.

My best anti scam strategy on every online dating website is this (and it never ever failed me): (1) don’t click on suspicious links or download suspicious files and (2) don’t fall in love with women before you confirm she is real.

That can be done by asking the girl to send real-life, natural pics as well as by chatting via webcam with her. After you’ve made sure that she’s a real person, feel free to fall in love and take a plane to China to meet her.

My search for Chinese wife continues, but I can feel that ChnLove is the right online dating service to help me find my perfect lady – as I don’t want to waste no more time on other services out there. I’m 42 after all – it’s time to settle!!

14
Jun

Surprising Dating Facts from Dating Apps: All Men are Attracted to Asian Women

sexy hot Chinese womenNot only is race a major factor in many people’s dating interests, but certain races get excessively high amounts of interest compared to others. This is according to a recent study that was carried out across a number of popular dating apps. One of the most surprising and intriguing findings of this study is that most men across all races are attracted to Asian women. Do you like Chinese women? if your answer is in the affirmative, you are one among many who are said to have been infected with “Yellow Fever”.

By yellow fever, we don’t mean the potentially fatal viral hemorrhagic disease spread by mosquitoes, but rather a strong liking for Chinese girls. This term is characteristic of men who prefer Asian women to other races. As a matter of fact, there are many Chinese dating sites specifically customized for men looking for this special kind of breed.hot Chinese women

The real question here is not whether men from different races prefer Asian damsels, but why? Well, the answer differs depending on who the question is directed to. Some men argue that the reason why they are into sexy hot Chinese women is because Asian women are more submissive, tame and docile compared their counterparts from other races. Another group of men claim that their liking is a harmless preference solely on the basis of physical appearance, not dissimilar than a liking for brunettes or blonds.

If you have been fantasizing about dating Chinese ladies, you probably have your reasons as to why you prefer this particular race over others. One thing that is for sure is that Asian women are extremely gorgeous. While it may not be true to say that all of them are submissive and docile, it is true to say that most of them are that way, especially if you look at the right places. One ideal place to find only the most submissive single Chinese girls is on an authentic dating site.

You are probably looking for tips on how to date Chinese girls. Good news is that dating an Asian girl isn’t a complex phenomenon. Just join a trusted dating site, sign up, upload your pictures and you will be ready to go. Further studies show that Asian women are the most popular on most dating sites. If you would like to narrow your search to Chinese women only, you can sign up to a reputable Chinese dating site.

After a successful sign up, you will be able to view China sexy girl pictures. The good thing about looking for love on a trusted Chinese dating site is that the photos you see there belong to real people. This means that what you see is exactly what you get. Take your time to go through the profiles and behold the sight of the beautiful damsels in display. Once you get one that you are physically attracted to, you can initiate a chat and find out if the single Chinese girl is a charmer.

Another important lesson you should learn when initiating a chat with an Asian lady involves familiarizing yourself on how to date Chinese girls. The good thing about Asian women is that they are not snobs. Not unless you are a complete jerk, you can expect to have a good response. Be natural, address her with respect, reveal your sense of humor, shower her with compliments, etc. In other words, up your ‘A’ game! In the end, you will find out to your amazement that dating Chinese girls is probably the most rewarding accomplishment you will ever make as far as achieving relationship goals is concerned.

12
Jun

Chnlove Asia Dating Tips: Play It Slow When Dating Chinese Women

Four years of being a member on the Chnlove Asia dating site has taught me a lot about Chinese women. Unlike Western women who are used to expressing their feelings and affection openly, Chinese women are more reserved and have different expectation in a relationship.

Chnlove Asia dating tips: be patient when communicating with Chinese women

Chinese women are generally very conservative.They may be reluctant to share experiences which are too personal, especially at the early stage of a relationship. So it is totally inappropriate to send her overtly suggestive messages because she may feel very embarrassed and it can be a serious turn-off. Sex and intimacy is, especially for conservative, older Chinese, a subject that is not discussed openly. On the other hand, Chinese women are by culture encouraged to be submissive and make few demands on their man. They will ask you very little details of your life. They are very cautious in asking you personal questions. So you have to break the ice and don’t be shy to talk about any aspect of your life.

Chinese ladies are very romantic from the heart and believe that love must be expressed deep from the heart first and foremost. It is romance, love, honesty and a stable companion they’re seeking at this point. It may take some time for your lady to develop confidence with your intentions. Go slow, and don’t come on real strong. Once she has developed some trust in you and accepted the fact that you two are compatible, she will open up more about her feelings and be more expressive. So just go slow and convince her that you are worth her time and she will open up to you . You have to remember this online dating experience is new to her in most cases, and she has her fears and worries. Just share your feelings and give it some time.

Display traditional gentleman behavior when meeting her for the first time

Don’t rush your lady by telling her you are going to visit her after exchanging just a few letters. When the right time comes, she will tell you she is ready to meet you, and she is waiting for you. For the majority of Chinese ladies, there is no such thing as a casual relationship. A Chinese lady usually interprets any intimate behavior as indications of long-term relationship potential. For these reasons, you should display traditional gentleman behavior when you meet her in person for the first time. This will send the right signals to her, showing her that you are someone who respects her as a female.

12
Jun

Chnlove.com advance: Is Age Difference Really a Matter in a Relationship?

In the real world, age differences are more conservative. Meanwhile, a the press coverage given to celebrity women with younger partners is remarkable. To be honest, relationship is a result from many factors influence, including age, education, live experience, and so on. Based on the observation from Chnlove.com, the age difference can be understood in these ways:

As we known, there is a lot of variables on a relationship, and age difference always play an important role in it. Love just likes an emotion expression of psychological and physical ideas from two people. Some people who are in late 40’s early 50’s that look and act more than 60, one the other hand, some people in their late 50’s early 60’s that act and have the appearance of being in their late 40’s to early 50’s. Before I heart an experience from my friend. He met a lady in China, and he usually concerns about age difference between he and his Chinese girl friend. He tried to talk with the Chinese lady on this issue. What reply he got was that she was happy with him, told him not to worry and said she would not run off with a younger man. My friend seems to be very sweet with the answer, and get his so called summary on the age difference, which is to think young but be responsable, dress young and be positive.Moreover, Asian woman do not view age like Westrn woman. Asian woman see older age as wisdom and security in relationship. For some reasons, it is difficult for gentlemen who are over 55 Y.O. to find a Western woman because they put less value on those gentlemen who nearly approach their retirement. However, I found some difference from Chinese ladies view, they think 10 -15 years gap is acceptable. It appears that the ladies in China do not have the age and other hang-ups like ladies in USA. They know that someone who is older will (or should) be more stable, with a relationship and job. To sum up, there is no evidence that anything other than wide age differences increase the likelihood of splitting up the relationship with more than 10 years age difference.  Different people have different view on the age difference due to people charter, education etc. However, the most important to overcome the gap, it is to think positive and act young.

27
May

ChnLove Guide – Find Matured Chinese Ladies to Date

30+Chinese ladies on Chnlove.com

Date 30+ Beautiful Chinese Ladies on ChnLove.com!

Every man wants to find a young and beautiful girl to date or marry, which is also the dream and desire of ChnLove male members. As an online dating expert, I think in a different way. If you want to increase the success rate, you should find the matured ladies to date, especially you are seeking Chinese women for marriage on ChnLove.com.

Different from the young girls who are online dating for fun or killing loneliness, the matured ladies hold a more sincere attitude in finding a lifetime partner. In China, a 30+ lady is bearing great pressures from the society and the family staff. If a Chinese lady remains single when she is over 27, she is labeled ‘Leftover Woman’tag which indicates that she is hard to find a good man. That’s why there are more and more matured Chinese ladies turn their targets to western gentlemen while selecting a lifetime partner.

There are many advantages when you are dating a matured Chinese lady.

First of all, she is holding a serious and sincere attitude to find a Mr. Right via ChnLove.com. Without too much time to waste, she is keen to meet a man who has the same target as her – Finding the right person for marriage. She is not playing with you! She needs a sincere right guy to build up a family!

Second, a matured lady gets ready to deal with filial piety and she could it very well. With matured thoughts, she perfectly understands your parents, what they require and then find a good solution to cater to their needs. What’s more, the matured lady get good preparation to give birth to babies instantly after marriage. If you are a man who is keen to get married and upgrade yourself to be a father, then find a 30+ Chinese lady to start romantic relationship on Chnlove.com.

Third, she can keep a good balance between work and family. Should a woman stay at home to become a fulltime wife after marriage or continue to have her own work? It’s a question mostly concerned by men! To reach a perfect conclusion, I personally suggest a married woman having a good balance between work and family. It is not contradictive! Instead, a wife having a considerable income can certainly assist the husband and release his economic burden.

On ChnLove, it is very easy to contact a matured Chinese lady as long as you assure this kind of lady is what you really want. Locate the lady circle by the Advanced Search and then select the exact dating services including EMF Mail, Live Chat, Love Call and Cupid Date based on your own needs to contact them. With time, honesty and patience, I am sure you will finally bring your princess home. It is just a matter of time!

About ChnLove

Chnlove.com - #1 Trusted Online Dating Site in Asia

Chnlove.com – #1 Trusted Online Dating Site in Asia

ChnLove is currently one of the largest leading international online dating platforms in Asia. Since the establishment in 1998, it has successfully assisted thousands of its male members to seek the perfect matches within mainland China. Cooperated with local matchmaking agencies in more than 30 major cities, ChnLove will continue to attract more sincere single gentlemen with a secure dating environment, effective and friendly-used communication tools and terrific customer services.

14
Mar

Show Your Honesty and Gain Trust When Dating Chinese Girls

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Who likes being cheated? No-one, and that includes Chinese girls. Keeping your honesty increases your chances to finally win her. Once a Chinese girl starts to trust you, the succeeding steps become easier to surpass. Trust is gained by being honest.

Chinese women will not necessarily say what they are feeling. They are more likely to show you how they feel about you through their actions. Chinese women may look after you by buying things or making you good food. They may help you choose an outfit and help you to look good, or they will look after you if you are sick. This is how they express their affection as they may be too shy to express their deeper feelings. When she trusts you completely she will tell you how she feels.

Always be truthful. Even in the situations where even a small lie could get you out of lots of trouble, don’t do it. Your Chinese girl will find out about everything you do and you will not get away with it.

Make sure she finds out first above anybody if you have done anything to mess up. Anytime you hear something bad that your partner did before they tell you, you always presume worse than what it actually is. Friends always distort the truth to your girlfriend, and eventually the truth will get out. It’s always better to hear first-hand what happened, and to seek forgiveness then.

Make sure you trust her. Without your trust for your Chinese lady, she definitely won’t be able to trust you. To know if you trust her, think of situations you would want to do, and if you could see your girlfriend doing those same things. For instance if you wanted to hang out with some girls at the mall, see if you could imagine her doing the same thing with guys. If not, then understand that some things fall beyond trust, including putting yourself into tempting situations.

Keep your promises. To do this, make sure your promises are realistic, and you are willing to follow through before making them. If you are not able to, don’t promise or it will cause more hurt than anything. Promises could be small or large in perspective but realize that making a promise is long term and can affect both you and her future.

2
Jan

How to Impress Your Chinese Girl on Your First Date?

First Date Tips-ChnLove Review

Preparing for a date with a Chinese lady but are worried about how to behave and make a good impression? Maybe you’ve been on plenty of dates in your lifetime and you think you’re an expert on dating and have tons of experience, but you can’t apply of it when dating a Chinese girl as there are some differences. Here are some main points which you’ll need to bear in mind to make a good impression on your Chinese lady:

Avoid a traditional date

You shouldn’t try to date a Chinese girl. That means, don’t try the traditional dating moves. A dinner, movie, an occasional goodnight kiss and the no more calls from her. This comes with too much pressure, expectations and awkwardness. This is what every one else has been doing with her. Try something easier and less conventional. Something like just meeting for coffee, no big set up or preparations. She is less prepared and expectant. The atmosphere is less charged, more relaxed and thus more fun without the usual dating expectations. Besides, you want to be able to talk and get to know this person.

Prepare a small gift for her

Flowers always have the magic to make your girl happy, so it’s highly recommended to bring her flowers. Stick with roses, lilies, or orchids. As dating is a serious thing for Chinese girls, it’s a good idea is to buy a vase with the flowers as this will represent a permanent gift that she can keep and she’ll know that you are serious about her.

Remember to behave like a gentleman

Chinese girls already give foreigners credit for knowing how to be gentlemen, so don’t miss the chance to prove this point. Give a hand to your girl to help her out of the taxi, open the door in front of her etc. That will definitely make her feel happy and proud.

Don’t be Mr. Goody-Goody

Don’t be Mr. Goody-Goody. Be a bit naughty – throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Don’t over-do it but do show her you are over impressed with her looks. Naughty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are.

Less is more

Every guy tries to get a Chinese woman out on a date and impress her with detailed “rap” or speech moves. The truth is she’s heard it all before in many variations and versions. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her, the more the Chinese girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and Chinese girls like being challenged.

Honesty is the best policy

Honesty is also a quality that is highly respected in the Chinese society. A man of honor doesn’t lie and doesn’t abandon his responsibilities. If you wish to impress a Chinese girl you have to prove to her that you can be such a man of honor.

Show interest in her family Chinese women put a very high priority on family so showing interest in and bringing up conversation about that topic is a good hot button with her. It sure would boost the possibility of your success.

Listen to her suggestions

Let’s say you decided to go to Chinese restaurant. Hand the menu to your girl and listen to her suggestions. Don’t be surprised with the Chinese custom to order many dishes during meals – usually lunch or dinner will comprise two dishes with meat, one vegetable dish and a bowl of soup. And if you eat hot-pot – then it might be served with 5-10 different supplements!

Shave properly and avoid using strong perfume

You should shave properly and in case that nature gifted you with rich hairiness – consider carefully the style of T-shirt that you wear for the date. Also, avoid using strong perfume. In most cases, a little goes a long way. Chinese girls’ noses are very sensitive and they might make paradoxical conclusions about your reasons to use strong fragrances.

The bottom line is Chinese women really aren’t that much different from other women. The only difference is most other women like this sort of good behavior and chivalry but they don’t expect it whereas a Chinese woman does expected and demand it. Chinese women generally have very high self-esteem and very high values for themselves so they won’t tolerate being treated badly. To ensure the date is successful just make sure you are a complete gentleman and a nice guy and make her the focus of the night.