31
Mar

Cinderella Marriage: Chinese Woman Marrying Presidential Candidate

Internet becomes an essential part in life. It is the most popular and important way for people to communicate with each other. You search resources for work, watch sports, have a video chat with your family, discuss with your friends and even find yourself a Chinese wife through the Internet. So amazing and powerful! Today I want to share a real Cinderella story which comes to reality with the help of Internet.
Wu Mulan, a China woman, used to work in a garment factory as an ordinary worker in Shenzhen, a city located in the southern China. She left her hometown to Shenzhen with her little daughter after she got divorced with her ex-husband more than ten years ago and struggled to live a better life in that lonely place. In 2003, she did well in work and life became stable and then her daughter had been a thirteen-year-old girl who could take care of herself. So she began thinking to find a lifetime partner. Then this Chinese single mother signed up in an Asian dating website to look for her second marriage. However, she never thought that she could met such a great man and became a wife of a Polish presidential candidate.
On the other hand, Stanislaw Tyminski, a Polish man long settled in Canada, had participated in the 1990 Polish presidential election and became the second strongest and promising candidate and also in the 2005 presidential election made himself the first offical candidate, by now he occupies an important position in Polish political arena. Before the wonderful encounter with his China love, he had gone through two marriages firstly with a Finnish girl and secondly with a Peruvian woman, from which he had got four children. Perhaps it is the same unhappy experience on marriage and both becoming single parent that make them feel right to each other.
” I had no idea on surfing online and also knew little about English at that time.” Wu Mulan talked about the difficulty she met during her Internet dating. She first asked her friends to translate emails for her and later she did not want to bother her friends to much and decided to write the emails by herself with the help of some translation software. Apart from that, Stanislaw used to demand a video chat with Wu, but she always refused that. She explained that she did not want him to judge her by her appearance and moreover she was incapable of chatting in English.  Although all these tough things they had gone through and they sometimes had misunderstanding because of the language barrier and cultural difference, the China lady and her Polish husband bravely overcame so much things and finally got together after two years communication.
They are now living in a four-story villa with their five daughters and sons in downtown Toronto. In an interview, Wu Mulan talked about their current life after the marriage. She goes to language school to improve English, and after school she does some housework and cooks meals for Stanislaw and their boys and girls. Sometimes they still have got problems on language and cultural differences. However, Wu Mulan said that communication does not necessarily rely on language. It is love that works in a communication and relationship.
What a beautiful and romantic transnational marriage! Two people from different country and different culture background got to know each other and become couple through a Chinese dating site. And I just want to say that love is without border, love can be everywhere, including online dating service.

Chinese wife and her Polish husband

Wu Mulan and Stanislaw

2
Apr

Golden Rules for Calling Your Chinese Girl

Listening to her voice means a little more than anything. – Since Chnlove had put out Lovecall service, many gentlemen show their interests about that. But sometimes, calling someone from another country can be intimidating and terrifying, so how to make the phone call to your Chinese girl vivid and efficient? Here are a few guidelines and pointers as you pick up the telephone:

1.Select the Right Time to Call
Pay attention to the equation of time and let your Chinese girl know when to expect your call. Don’t cold call her. Prior to calling, give a little advance notice. This will help you avoid catching her in the middle of washing their dog, their hair, etc! And because of varying work schedules, some Chinese girls are easier to reach in the mornings, whereas others prefer to receive calls in the evening, you should discuss it with her beforehand.

2.Show Enthusiasm and Be Polite
Don’t be afraid to reveal that you’ve looked forward to speaking with your Chiense girl. Be confident and talk to her like you’d talk to one of your old friend, but at the same time, please be respectful and polite. Even though you’ve already communicated for a lone time via EMF mail, the first phone call can serve as a first impression. When your girl answers the telephone, please introduce yourself. Don’t assume that the person will automatically recognize your voice. A great way to introduce yourself is, “Hi, this is XXX, I’m the man you met on Chnlove. I come from XXX, etc”.

3.Prepare a checklist of things to talk about.
It’s perfectly natural to feel self-conscious or worry about not saying the right thing when you’re interested in a girl, but keeping phone conversations smooth and natural are important to developing a relationship. It may help for you to preparea a checklist beforehand to avoid extended periods of dead air. Plan some funny anecdotes to tell the person about what’s been happening in your life, or keep in mind topics that you know she’s interested in, so you can always segue into a new subject if the conversation falters.  Preparing yourself with some “emergency” stories can help you feel more confident before your phone date, which can lead to a more effortless discussion.

4.Keep the conversation light.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Be prepared to talk about your life, friends and family, hobbies and recent accomplishments. You should definitely avoid talking about your exes, politics, recently deceased relatives or pets or anything that makes you feel less than happy. Also, avoid any graphic conversation — it’s not cool. Chinese girls always like the sunny men.

5. Ask open-ended questions
When you’re dating a Chinese girl, strike a balance between sharing details of your life and asking questions about her life. It’s important to try to tell them what your life is like and how you’re thinking and feeling, but it’s also important to know how they think and feel about different topics. If you don’t know the person very well, this will help you assess whether you are both compatible, and it will also make the person you’re interested in know that you are considerate and care about getting to know him as an individual. While he is talking, be sure to listen attentively to his stories and ask follow-up questions.

6. Remember What’s Been Said
She’ll always remember what you said last, so did you. Make a mental note of the things that you talk with your Chinese girl, then you can keep on developing the relationship. If she mentions how much she would love to move to USA one day, bring up the topic of travel to USA during your next date or mention a newspaper article that you just read about USA’s distinctive cuisine. If you have had a number of positive phone calls with your Chinese girl, or are in a committed relationship with her, you can use the information you’ve learned about them over the phone to make real-life plans.

7.Use Chnlove Lovecall Service Instead of Normal Telephone
Chnlove LoveCall can let you manage all your phone communications with your wonderful Chinese women via translators just on any of your existing phones. With Chnlove Lovecall, you can talk with no language barrier, and you can make a call anytime, anywhere.

These are 7 golden rules to help you navigate your phone call with Chinese girls. With a little preparation, you’ll soon realize that that this was an easy call that you didn’t have to spend too much thought on but do it. For more information about Chinese girls and Chnlove, please visit Chnlove Official BLOG.

4
Mar

Things You Should Know About Finding Good International – Chinese Dating Sites


Online dating can be a great way to meet your dream partner, especially when you are in America but decide to choose a Chinese girl / woman for marriage. An increasing number of people are trying that for themselves. Sadly though, some people’s search for love ends in financial disaster, or sometimes even worse. Don’t let something ruin your internation online dating experience. This article will help you select a good international-Chinese dating site with integrity and capability.

Please ask the following 6 questions:

1. Do those Chinese dating sites have real Chinese girls / women profiles?
If the international-Chinese dating site have a number of beautiful Chinese girls / women profiled on the websites, check if those girls / women are all its members. By using a trusted Chinese dating site the beauties you see will be real and available.

2. Do those Chinese dating sites have good referrals?
Good international-Chinese dating sites should be able to provide you with many referrals. If the sites provide introduction events, ask them how many guys attended the last event and if they were all successful in finding a likely Chinese wife. If everyone got what they came for, then the sites should be eager to provide all the glowing references. Good ternational-Chinese dating sites will be able to provide ample referrals to back up their services. Your best insurance on the quality of the Chinese dating site is plenty of positive customer experiences.

3. Do those Chinese dating sites have real Testimonials?
Do not rely on testimonials. That can be fabricated unless they can be traced to a source. Find out who said what about whom and then verify the accuracy of the quote. Use a international-Chinese dating site that will show you the source and full context of all their quoted material.

4. Do those Chinese dating sites have positive reputation?
Good international-Chinese dating sites should have a good reputation. Find out by accessing the dating forums. Post a question asking about the good and the bad dating sites. An Chinese dating sites with a good reputation would participate in the forums and have a history of dialogue that can be used to evaluate their services.

5. Do those Chinese dating sitess have a trustworthy owner?
Talk to the owner, is he a man you can trust? How long has he been in business and can he verify a record of success? What distinguishes their agency from the others and why you will be more successful under their care? Are you going to be treated as an individual or as part of the pack? Ask as many questions as possible to scrutinize all aspects of the service you are interested in. Your trip itinerary needs to be clearly defined. Understand the details and specifics that will make your travels to find a Chinese wife successfully.

6. Do those Chinese dating sites have considerate services?
Use international-Chinese dating sites that have a staffed office at your arrival destination and a qualified intermediary. The difference between Chinese girls / women and girls / women in your country requires a cultural navigation best guided by trained professional matchmakers that will help you bridge the cultural differences and build a successful relationship. Good international-Chinese dating sites with considerate services will support you with full-time, experienced, trained, dedicated, professional matchmakers who can properly assist you.

Chnlove.com is such a international-Chinese dating site can give positive answers “YES, YES, YES” to all above questions. Click and check why use Chnlove.

13
Feb

Online Dating Safety Tips for This Valentine’ s Day

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner and finding a perfect match on this Valentine’ s Day via online dating services sounds like a dream come true, but everything also can quickly turn into a nightmare if you haven’t known any Dating Safety Tips and choose a wrong online dating site. In this special love day, dating scammers are preying on people looking for love.

There is no denying that many respectable and reliable e-dating services are provided online, but daters should be extremely careful when choosing the best service to meet their needs. To avoid falling victim to cybercrimes, you should only use sites with explicit privacy policies, ensuring that their anonymity will be protected and no private information will be revealed without their consent. At the same time, we, Chnlove.com also suggest online dates should read testimonials and dating reviews, as well as the advice of a trustworthy person who has already used the service before proceeding to register and subscribing.

Beware of e-threats this Valentine’ s Day may include:
• Scammers posing as attractive singles, building relationships, then sharing sob stories and needing money wired for an emergency .
• Prowlers scanning internet sites looking for personal information in order to commit identity theft.
• Unscrupulous companies and matchmakers that cheat singles out of hundreds or thousands of dollars and never deliver on their services.

Chnlove.com alsp offers the following additional tips to keep computers and personal information safe on this Valentine’ s Day:

• Don’t open e-mail from unknown sources. Many viruses spread via email messages, so always ask for a confirmation from the sender if you are in doubt.
• Don’t open attachments in emails with suspicious subject lines right away. Instead, save them to your hard disk and scan them with an updated antivirus program.
• Delete any chain emails or unwanted messages. Don’t forward them or reply to their senders. These kinds of messages are considered spam because they’re unsolicited and can overload Web traffic.
• Update your system and applications as often as possible. Some operating systems and applications can be set to update automatically. Make full use of this feature. Failure to patch your system often may leave it vulnerable to threats.
• Don’t copy any file from a source you don’t know or trust. Check the source of files you download and make sure that an antimalware program has already verified the files at their source.
• Use an integrated security solution that includes antimalware, antispam and firewall, as well as advanced features, such as Web Filtering and Identity Protection.

You are welcome to share your experience and opinion about Dating Safety for Valentine’ s day on Chnlove Anti Scam campaign site. Last, Wish your valentine’ s day to be joyful. Let someone special steal your heart in this romantic holiday, but not your money or your identity.

14
Jan

4 Steps To Find & Avoid Online Dating Scams

Online dating, Internet romance are becoming more and more popular because it has many positive aspects. But frankly speaking, it has also proven to be a ‘big board’ for dating scammers to exploit the trend, taking advantage of innocent men and women in search of love.

Now, You can find and avoid falling prey to dating scammers by reading the below online dating tips:

1. Starting First Contact to your Private Email Address
Professional online dating scammers are very smart and creative. They virtually always are the first to start emailing you. Usually, they will tell you that they found your contact details or profile on X or Y website and that were touched by your profile and would like to know you more and build a romantic relationship with you. If you receive such emails in your private Email Address –whether in your spam or inbox folder–don’t pay attention to it. Just delete it. If possible, mark this email as phishing scam.

If you want to have a meaningful online dating, you are adviced to join a credible online dating site (such as Chnlove.com, AsiaMatch.com, both of  them have serious Anti-scam POLICY), and start communication under their guide. Never believe the people who start first contact to your private Email.

2. Sending Fake Pictures
Usually, online dating scammers will email or scan fake pictures from magazines. In most cases they tend to steal another person’s photographs, such as of a beautiful woman or a charming gentleman and post them. Just ignore them.

I could not but mention Chnlove.com again. It is an accepted fact that Chinese girls in this site are most beautiful, but their photo is also true and faithful. Chnlove and its local agencies verify all of lady’s profile before posting them on the site.

3. Not Disclosing Any Personal Information
More often than not, scammers will show an overly interest feelings in everything about you, yet do not share any of their personal data with you. If you feel that the person you are talking to is bombarding you with questions but refuses to answer any of your questions then; know that your life is in danger.

Chnlove.com always tell their members to know each other better before making the final decision, no matter communicate with their EMF MAILS, or lovecall,or praivate ways, when you want to develop the relationship further, always think it over.

4. Asking For Financial Help
After communicating with the scammer for three days – to a couple of weeks, an ‘unexpected emergency’ will occur and you will be asked for a huge sum of money. Most often they tell you that their mother or sister is ill and therefore surgery is needed but do not have enough funds, or they want to meet you but need your financial support with airfare, and so on. When you encounter such things, know that you are not dealing with a genuine online dater, but an experienced online scammer.

Yes, NEVER send money to anyone who you met online, but have not yet met in person. This is the primal faith Chnlove tells their members.

Welcome to  Chnlove Anti-Scam Campaign to know more about Chnlove Anti scam policy.

7
Jan

When You Found Charming Photos on Chnlove…

Someone once said, among lots of Asian dating sites, most beautiful Chinese girls are on Chnlove. We are very proud of that, but at the same time, we also receive some questions form our male members like that: “Many of the Chinese women on your site are seriously pretty.. even more than that.. There are model professional photos.. Which is usually another warning sign that it’s dating scammers. What are your thoughts on such excellent pics? Too good to be true. I’m really wondering, can such charming photos be real?

Frankly speaking, this concern is understandable, but for people who are familiar with us must know that Chnlove puts a lot effort into fighting against all dishonest behaviours which may be harmful to our reputation or the confidence of our male member. You can go back to our sites to learn how Chinese girls with charming photo to join Chnlove, how we Anti-scam, how you can protect yourself in online dating, etc. Then, special for the charming photos, model professional photos, we have something to say:

Chinese girls may value their appearance very seriously. When you walk down the streets of any major city, you may realize that no matter you look in any direction, at any time and you will not see at least one, but usually many, stunningly beautiful women. They wears fashion clothes and elegant makeup. And this is their daily life, imagine what they should do when they join a online dating site and want to attract a western man? These kind and sincere Chinese women of course will provide you with what they are best at.

Dear men, another fact for you in case you are not aware yet: Chinese people in general and Chinese girls especially love photography and love having their pictures taken. Chinese women take photographs seriously and they always get ready for the photo session. They know how to pose properly and they will take as long as necessary to get great pictures. We understand except for wannabe actresses or models, you just can’t say that about western women, but it is typical of all Chinese women. China is in love with the camera and  So, we accept our lasy’s charming photo which took in photographic studio, which is kind of their life.

As webmaster of a Asian dating site, we know very well that online dating needs best photos. We display our ladies as Newly Posted and Latest Refresh, “Newly Posted” section displays the new profiles of Chinese girls, but older profiles will be displayed in a latter position as new profiles takes precedence over the old one. In order to give fairer chances we introduced the “Latest Refresh” section. However, there are always 30 photo can be showed in the first page. We noticed very early that if a lady with high quality profile she got a lot of attention, which meant more clicks on her, and more EMF mail and cupid fly to her. For girls, this is a competition for getting attention, so they would like choosing or taking their most charming photo.

We discussed with some agency and professional photographic studio, they really have a way with taking wonderful photos. They said, some Chinese girls are naturally photogenic, but it is a talent anyone can develop with a little practice. They will guide their guests like this:

– “Be comfortable, you don’t have to be a model to take great pictures. Self-confidence shines through in photos. If you fold your arms a certain way, cover your mouth or look as if you’re hiding something, then you won’t look attractive.”

– “Play up your assets. Models have flaws, they just learn how to work with them. Downplay yours by shifting the focus to your better features. If you’ve got great eyes, then make sure you don’t squint. If you’ve got a long neck, then show it off. The point is to take whatever you’ve got and use it to your advantage.”

– “Know your angles. You may actually have a “good side.” Certain angles may appear more flattering than others. For instance, you don’t want to tilt your head back too far or your nostrils will look huge. Play around with poses to see which ones you like best.”

– “Think like a model. Make the poses you like the most second nature. Whenever you’re in front of the camera, go into them automatically. Your pictures will come out great and people will think that you are naturally photogenic.”

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There are numerous photographic skills can be used to unleash a lady’s inner super model and be more photogenic. Good appearance, elegant makeup, and professional photography, Chinese girls in a dating site always make themselves look best. They do it because they struggle to keep your eyes off them. So when You Found Charming Photos on Chnlove…Tell yourself, these Chinese girls are true and sincere.

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24
Dec

Tips for Success? Signals show the Chinese girl is sincere

Gentlemen may worry a lot when falling in love with a girl through online dating, they always ask: Is she a dating scammer? Is she keeping contact with other men like me? Is she serious about having a long term relationship? The phenomenon is more often when the girls they date are from different country and different culture. In this respect, Chnlove  summed up some signals can highlight Chinese girls ‘ sincerity in your Chinese dating.

– When the Chinese girl introduces you to her family and friends: She is so proud of you and that’s why she introduces you to her family and friends.

– When the Chinese girl plays a very active role to share her life with you: If she sends a jolly long-wind letter to you which mentions all the trivial stuff, or she asks for your opinions whenever she faces a decision-making process, it is highly likely that she accepts you as the one to commit a relationship with.

– When the Chinese girl remembers you well, and take note on everything about you: If she keeps on asking you about events happened to you dated back to two months ago, or the results of something you’ve talked before, or if she remembers well the date you two first talked to each other, birthday, or some special occasions you don’t remember well yet important, it is very possible that she keeps everything about you in her heart.

– When the Chinese girl is becoming more interested in your language and expects to meet you soon: She strives hard to learn English. And she gives you her personal contact number, address, etc. These are the signs that a Chinese girl hopes to communicate with you directly someday in your language.

– When the Chinese girl reacts the same way as you do: Do you feel angry and frustrated at certain times? Is she there and share your burdens? Her willingness to share your joy and sorrow has already indicated that you two have already been connected.

It’s true that above information is formed on the basis of our 12 years of successful experience of helping western gentlemen to realize their dreams – seek a Chinese girl as their the perfect match, but that is incomplete and is not absolute truth. No love story follows the same pattern. Just use common sense and exercise.

Follow your heart, believe yourself that you will find the most beautiful bride online. And Join Chnlove, let the best Chinese dating site helps you.