Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. It is not just the title of a bestselling book but it is the reality that we must face in our relationship. When you meet a beautiful Chinese lady on Chnlove, you find she is absolutely great. Your have tons and tons of things in common – music, movies and even philosophy. Everything seems fine. However, you may puzzle why she doesn’t like to answer your questions in the mails. Is she serious with your relationship? Chnlove is fake? The man spends a life long time trying to get to know the women. But it always failed. When your lady ignores your questions, have you ever thought of the reasons below?
First of all, the character of the girl you date with on Chnlove Club.
Your lady might be a shy and introvert person. She is rather to be a listener than a talker in her daily life. Actually it is hard to change an old habit we have formed for years. Also, she might as well be attentive as you are and value this relationship very much, so she doesn’t want any inappropriate answers to ruin it. I would say just talk about any subject that you are both interested in, be understanding and patience. Take your time and go at her pace. If you think she is highly likely to be the one that you want to spend your lifetime with, get to know her better, also let her know you better. Bring up subjects like how do you want your future life to be, and marriage, kids, etc.
Secondly, pay attention to the quality of your questions.
Online dating doesn’t like dating face to face, there might be more uncertainties. It is understandable that you may ask many questions to make sure she is the real lady as showed in her profile. But have you ever thought of the lady’s feeling as she faces a million of questions doubting her existence. Believe me, no matter how polite or obscure your questions are, the lady can sense your distrust to the relationship. Women are genius in this field. Under this situation, Chinese women prefer to keep their true feeling deep in their heart, so even if they feel offended, they might not express it directly. They will either choose to ignore your questions or answer it in a tricky way. I believe this is not the result you are expecting for.
Thirdly, why not change another way to date Chinese girl?
If, your questions are about her opinion, her emotions or just trying to get to know her better, well, that is a different story. Here are some examples of some fun questions that you can ask your girlfriend and make her at ease around you. 1.What do you think is the best place in this world for honeymoon? 2.Are you interested in traveling? If yes, what would be your dream destination? 3.Do you have any habits, which you find rather odd or what is the worst habit you thinks you have?