12
Jun

Chnlove Asia Dating Tips: Play It Slow When Dating Chinese Women

Four years of being a member on the Chnlove Asia dating site has taught me a lot about Chinese women. Unlike Western women who are used to expressing their feelings and affection openly, Chinese women are more reserved and have different expectation in a relationship.

Chnlove Asia dating tips: be patient when communicating with Chinese women

Chinese women are generally very conservative.They may be reluctant to share experiences which are too personal, especially at the early stage of a relationship. So it is totally inappropriate to send her overtly suggestive messages because she may feel very embarrassed and it can be a serious turn-off. Sex and intimacy is, especially for conservative, older Chinese, a subject that is not discussed openly. On the other hand, Chinese women are by culture encouraged to be submissive and make few demands on their man. They will ask you very little details of your life. They are very cautious in asking you personal questions. So you have to break the ice and don’t be shy to talk about any aspect of your life.

Chinese ladies are very romantic from the heart and believe that love must be expressed deep from the heart first and foremost. It is romance, love, honesty and a stable companion they’re seeking at this point. It may take some time for your lady to develop confidence with your intentions. Go slow, and don’t come on real strong. Once she has developed some trust in you and accepted the fact that you two are compatible, she will open up more about her feelings and be more expressive. So just go slow and convince her that you are worth her time and she will open up to you . You have to remember this online dating experience is new to her in most cases, and she has her fears and worries. Just share your feelings and give it some time.

Display traditional gentleman behavior when meeting her for the first time

Don’t rush your lady by telling her you are going to visit her after exchanging just a few letters. When the right time comes, she will tell you she is ready to meet you, and she is waiting for you. For the majority of Chinese ladies, there is no such thing as a casual relationship. A Chinese lady usually interprets any intimate behavior as indications of long-term relationship potential. For these reasons, you should display traditional gentleman behavior when you meet her in person for the first time. This will send the right signals to her, showing her that you are someone who respects her as a female.

12
Jun

Chnlove.com advance: Is Age Difference Really a Matter in a Relationship?

In the real world, age differences are more conservative. Meanwhile, a the press coverage given to celebrity women with younger partners is remarkable. To be honest, relationship is a result from many factors influence, including age, education, live experience, and so on. Based on the observation from Chnlove.com, the age difference can be understood in these ways:

As we known, there is a lot of variables on a relationship, and age difference always play an important role in it. Love just likes an emotion expression of psychological and physical ideas from two people. Some people who are in late 40’s early 50’s that look and act more than 60, one the other hand, some people in their late 50’s early 60’s that act and have the appearance of being in their late 40’s to early 50’s. Before I heart an experience from my friend. He met a lady in China, and he usually concerns about age difference between he and his Chinese girl friend. He tried to talk with the Chinese lady on this issue. What reply he got was that she was happy with him, told him not to worry and said she would not run off with a younger man. My friend seems to be very sweet with the answer, and get his so called summary on the age difference, which is to think young but be responsable, dress young and be positive.Moreover, Asian woman do not view age like Westrn woman. Asian woman see older age as wisdom and security in relationship. For some reasons, it is difficult for gentlemen who are over 55 Y.O. to find a Western woman because they put less value on those gentlemen who nearly approach their retirement. However, I found some difference from Chinese ladies view, they think 10 -15 years gap is acceptable. It appears that the ladies in China do not have the age and other hang-ups like ladies in USA. They know that someone who is older will (or should) be more stable, with a relationship and job. To sum up, there is no evidence that anything other than wide age differences increase the likelihood of splitting up the relationship with more than 10 years age difference.  Different people have different view on the age difference due to people charter, education etc. However, the most important to overcome the gap, it is to think positive and act young.

27
May

ChnLove Guide – Find Matured Chinese Ladies to Date

30+Chinese ladies on Chnlove.com

Date 30+ Beautiful Chinese Ladies on ChnLove.com!

Every man wants to find a young and beautiful girl to date or marry, which is also the dream and desire of ChnLove male members. As an online dating expert, I think in a different way. If you want to increase the success rate, you should find the matured ladies to date, especially you are seeking Chinese women for marriage on ChnLove.com.

Different from the young girls who are online dating for fun or killing loneliness, the matured ladies hold a more sincere attitude in finding a lifetime partner. In China, a 30+ lady is bearing great pressures from the society and the family staff. If a Chinese lady remains single when she is over 27, she is labeled ‘Leftover Woman’tag which indicates that she is hard to find a good man. That’s why there are more and more matured Chinese ladies turn their targets to western gentlemen while selecting a lifetime partner.

There are many advantages when you are dating a matured Chinese lady.

First of all, she is holding a serious and sincere attitude to find a Mr. Right via ChnLove.com. Without too much time to waste, she is keen to meet a man who has the same target as her – Finding the right person for marriage. She is not playing with you! She needs a sincere right guy to build up a family!

Second, a matured lady gets ready to deal with filial piety and she could it very well. With matured thoughts, she perfectly understands your parents, what they require and then find a good solution to cater to their needs. What’s more, the matured lady get good preparation to give birth to babies instantly after marriage. If you are a man who is keen to get married and upgrade yourself to be a father, then find a 30+ Chinese lady to start romantic relationship on Chnlove.com.

Third, she can keep a good balance between work and family. Should a woman stay at home to become a fulltime wife after marriage or continue to have her own work? It’s a question mostly concerned by men! To reach a perfect conclusion, I personally suggest a married woman having a good balance between work and family. It is not contradictive! Instead, a wife having a considerable income can certainly assist the husband and release his economic burden.

On ChnLove, it is very easy to contact a matured Chinese lady as long as you assure this kind of lady is what you really want. Locate the lady circle by the Advanced Search and then select the exact dating services including EMF Mail, Live Chat, Love Call and Cupid Date based on your own needs to contact them. With time, honesty and patience, I am sure you will finally bring your princess home. It is just a matter of time!

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ChnLove is currently one of the largest leading international online dating platforms in Asia. Since the establishment in 1998, it has successfully assisted thousands of its male members to seek the perfect matches within mainland China. Cooperated with local matchmaking agencies in more than 30 major cities, ChnLove will continue to attract more sincere single gentlemen with a secure dating environment, effective and friendly-used communication tools and terrific customer services.

14
Mar

Show Your Honesty and Gain Trust When Dating Chinese Girls

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Who likes being cheated? No-one, and that includes Chinese girls. Keeping your honesty increases your chances to finally win her. Once a Chinese girl starts to trust you, the succeeding steps become easier to surpass. Trust is gained by being honest.

Chinese women will not necessarily say what they are feeling. They are more likely to show you how they feel about you through their actions. Chinese women may look after you by buying things or making you good food. They may help you choose an outfit and help you to look good, or they will look after you if you are sick. This is how they express their affection as they may be too shy to express their deeper feelings. When she trusts you completely she will tell you how she feels.

Always be truthful. Even in the situations where even a small lie could get you out of lots of trouble, don’t do it. Your Chinese girl will find out about everything you do and you will not get away with it.

Make sure she finds out first above anybody if you have done anything to mess up. Anytime you hear something bad that your partner did before they tell you, you always presume worse than what it actually is. Friends always distort the truth to your girlfriend, and eventually the truth will get out. It’s always better to hear first-hand what happened, and to seek forgiveness then.

Make sure you trust her. Without your trust for your Chinese lady, she definitely won’t be able to trust you. To know if you trust her, think of situations you would want to do, and if you could see your girlfriend doing those same things. For instance if you wanted to hang out with some girls at the mall, see if you could imagine her doing the same thing with guys. If not, then understand that some things fall beyond trust, including putting yourself into tempting situations.

Keep your promises. To do this, make sure your promises are realistic, and you are willing to follow through before making them. If you are not able to, don’t promise or it will cause more hurt than anything. Promises could be small or large in perspective but realize that making a promise is long term and can affect both you and her future.

2
Jan

How to Impress Your Chinese Girl on Your First Date?

First Date Tips-ChnLove Review

Preparing for a date with a Chinese lady but are worried about how to behave and make a good impression? Maybe you’ve been on plenty of dates in your lifetime and you think you’re an expert on dating and have tons of experience, but you can’t apply of it when dating a Chinese girl as there are some differences. Here are some main points which you’ll need to bear in mind to make a good impression on your Chinese lady:

Avoid a traditional date

You shouldn’t try to date a Chinese girl. That means, don’t try the traditional dating moves. A dinner, movie, an occasional goodnight kiss and the no more calls from her. This comes with too much pressure, expectations and awkwardness. This is what every one else has been doing with her. Try something easier and less conventional. Something like just meeting for coffee, no big set up or preparations. She is less prepared and expectant. The atmosphere is less charged, more relaxed and thus more fun without the usual dating expectations. Besides, you want to be able to talk and get to know this person.

Prepare a small gift for her

Flowers always have the magic to make your girl happy, so it’s highly recommended to bring her flowers. Stick with roses, lilies, or orchids. As dating is a serious thing for Chinese girls, it’s a good idea is to buy a vase with the flowers as this will represent a permanent gift that she can keep and she’ll know that you are serious about her.

Remember to behave like a gentleman

Chinese girls already give foreigners credit for knowing how to be gentlemen, so don’t miss the chance to prove this point. Give a hand to your girl to help her out of the taxi, open the door in front of her etc. That will definitely make her feel happy and proud.

Don’t be Mr. Goody-Goody

Don’t be Mr. Goody-Goody. Be a bit naughty – throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Don’t over-do it but do show her you are over impressed with her looks. Naughty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are.

Less is more

Every guy tries to get a Chinese woman out on a date and impress her with detailed “rap” or speech moves. The truth is she’s heard it all before in many variations and versions. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her, the more the Chinese girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and Chinese girls like being challenged.

Honesty is the best policy

Honesty is also a quality that is highly respected in the Chinese society. A man of honor doesn’t lie and doesn’t abandon his responsibilities. If you wish to impress a Chinese girl you have to prove to her that you can be such a man of honor.

Show interest in her family Chinese women put a very high priority on family so showing interest in and bringing up conversation about that topic is a good hot button with her. It sure would boost the possibility of your success.

Listen to her suggestions

Let’s say you decided to go to Chinese restaurant. Hand the menu to your girl and listen to her suggestions. Don’t be surprised with the Chinese custom to order many dishes during meals – usually lunch or dinner will comprise two dishes with meat, one vegetable dish and a bowl of soup. And if you eat hot-pot – then it might be served with 5-10 different supplements!

Shave properly and avoid using strong perfume

You should shave properly and in case that nature gifted you with rich hairiness – consider carefully the style of T-shirt that you wear for the date. Also, avoid using strong perfume. In most cases, a little goes a long way. Chinese girls’ noses are very sensitive and they might make paradoxical conclusions about your reasons to use strong fragrances.

The bottom line is Chinese women really aren’t that much different from other women. The only difference is most other women like this sort of good behavior and chivalry but they don’t expect it whereas a Chinese woman does expected and demand it. Chinese women generally have very high self-esteem and very high values for themselves so they won’t tolerate being treated badly. To ensure the date is successful just make sure you are a complete gentleman and a nice guy and make her the focus of the night.

28
Nov

Always Choose Younger Chinese Women For Marriage?

 

Chinese women for marraige

Choose mature Chinese women for marriage on Chnlove.com!(Joan here, profile ID:P937212)

According to Chinese traditional, younger Chinese brides always receive higher value. Chinese men often discriminate against single women of 28 years and older. And an increasing number of single Chinese women has chosen to delay marriage to pursue higher education, which makes more and more Chinese girls leftover and difficult to find a husband. However, is it true that younger Chinese women always the best choices? Shall the single men always choose younger Chinese women for marriage? I don’t think so!

Chinese marriage market is now strained with Chinese women outnumbering women four to one. Plus modern Chinese women become more independent and well-educated, it greatly reduces men’s option! Since then, why not take Chinese ladies of 28 years and older into consideration? With well education, these ladies can maintain the family in a better way, and can certainly help the men in feeding the family.

Especially in China’s current economic environment, with the standard of living skyrocketing and the housing market demanding an am an a leg, a marriage with two financially stable individuals would definitely be far better than one that depends on only one earner. With such a social background, a matured and successful woman makes better marriage partner.

Elder women choose to spend the good times to better themselves by pursuing higher education, which helps to mold them become well-adjusted individuals. The ups and downs in the process of pursuing their goals assist them to develop the kind of strength of character and maturity which make them better lifetime partners than they would have been otherwise.

That’s to say, these women don’t loose their charm. Instead, they have their own advantages because they used these years wisely to make more out of themselves so that they have more to offer to whoever deserving to0 be their lifetime partners. Maturity gained through time and experiences is the key to successful marriage.

Therefore, younger Chinese women are not always the better options as a lifetime partner, especially in modern society. They are still young and don’t know how to handle obstacles and difficulties wisely and maturely. They have an unsteady heart and can’t resist any lures. A younger partner in a marriage may seem suitable initially, bu the years may still make this person change to a point that would make her/him less ideal to the other. Instead, a more mature and experienced person would provide more stability and performance to any marriage since they have already grown into who she or he really is!

In a word, younger women are not always the best options as lifetime partners. It depends on individuals. Suppose you are a man with a good economic background and you just want a younger lady to accompany you, then you can choose one from the younger beauties. If you are still a man who is striving for career and house, then I highly suggest finding a mature and well-educated who has the same goal with you and can walk forward with side by side!

12
Nov

Secrets to Hook Up Chinese Girls When Dating Online

 

Single Chinese Girls Online

Meet beautiful single Chinese laides online, just like her!

 

Most countries in the world have been exposed a great deal to what could be called ‘western culture’, or even now, what might be called ‘world culture’. This, however, is still not the case where China is concerned. The vast majority of Chinese girls born in mainland China for example, have a psychology that is very firmly rooted in their own culture. Actions and words that most of the other countries girls would find flattering or attractive, Chinese girls can find unattractive, and even sometimes insulting. From my own experience of dating western born Chinese girls and western women I’d have to say mainland Chinese females can be some of the most perplexing of females on the planet.

Are you the guy who is using a dating site to meet and date Chinese women for marriage? Are you often thinking about how to better your date with the single online Chinese girl you are in touch and how to set up a successful relationship with her? If yes, check the below top secrets for dating single Chinese women online.

Be dominant and direct – Chinese girls are naturally (usually) quite timid due to their strict upbringing, so they really respond well to a firm and authoritative manner, even more so than the average western woman. It’s important to be very dominant and direct, but also respectful at the same time.

Take your time – most Chinese women won’t give it up in the first correspondence, so you need to work for it over a few weeks. Get to know them, build deep levels of rapport and connection through EMF mail. Chinese girls love the whole fairy tale story because they are very romantic and soppy at heart, so concentrate on building a strong connection with them. Then move on to Live Chat, meeting up etc.

Ask good questions – this is a rule that applies to interacting in person as well, but it’s especially important in dating Chinese girls for marriage online because sometimes it can be hard to get people to reply to you (whether due to the massive amounts of mail they get everyday or simply because they don’t know how to respond to your introduction. Asking a few intelligent, well thought out questions, however, gives the Chinese woman a reason to respond, while at the same time showing something about yourself. Asking good questions can help you steer the conversation and help you know better about each other.

There are certain things you should NEVER do when around Chinese ladies:

Don’t tell her you have a “thing” for Chinese girls – this is the lamest thing you can ever say. It sounds weird – she will know you want her for sex, so don’t say it.

Don’t put her on a pedestal – it’s important to treat all women the same, otherwise you’re going to treat them differently to other women, which obviously makes you look needy.

Don’t talk about Chinese stereotypes – Talking about strict parents is boring and falls under the “no go” stereotypes, not to mention they are extremely frustrating to her as she’s heard them a thousand times before.

Don’t try to impress her with stupid Chinese related “facts” – do you think she cares about how many bicycles there are in Beijing? Of course not, so don’t reel of useless facts, they will just deter her.

Don’t be too shy or reserved – remember, when she doesn’t respond it’s not because she doesn’t like you, it’s because she’s shy, so you need to be the dominant one.

As I mentioned before, you’ll likely have to chat to a lot of ladies before you find the right Chinese bride. The good part is, you will be able to move on quickly, and so will they, and you should jump right back into the fray and try again. Persistence is a virtue with online dating and looking for your right Chinese wife, and being able to quickly acknowledge that something isn’t going to work will allow both of you to get back to your computers and strike up something new with the right Chinese woman for marriage.