Whether you’re just starting out in the world of dating online or are an experienced user of online dating sites, you probably have either of these goals: to date as many Chinese women as you can or find the sexy Chinese girl of your dreams, marry her and start a family together.
Either way, you’d love to know the tricks and shortcuts to achieving your end goal. Unfortunately, it happens way too often that beautiful sexy Chinese women and foreign men lose faith and give up way too early when trying online dating.
There are certain mindsets that prevent people from finding their perfect partner on dating sites. And today, we are going to go over the top three mindsets you need to ditch to find the love of your life among all those beautiful hot Chinese girls on online dating websites.
“I should find my significant other within weeks; if I don’t, it’s over”
Online dating isn’t some kind of a fairy tale where Internet cables hook you up with beautiful young Chinese girls the second you create a profile, where wireless connections pump passion through your veins to help you meet your hot Chinese girlfriend, and where a magical unicorn appears on the screen and invites you to join a chatroom with your future wife.
Online dating takes time and patience. And lots of effort, if you’re truly interested in looking for China girl. People think that it’s pointless keep looking for new dates on online dating sites once they have tried online dating for X number of months. Yes, we’ve all heard those unbelievable love stories in which a guy sends a girl a virtual gift and she instantly falls in love with him.
Unfortunately, online dating doesn’t work that way all the time. If it did, life would be a whole lot easier, wouldn’t it? Ask any married person who found their wife or husband on a dating site. Chances are, they had gone on numerous first dates with fellow online daters, chatted with gazillion people online, and did countless hours of CamShare sessions before they actually met their significant other.
So get rid of the mindset that if you don’t find a hot Chinese girlfriend within the first few weeks or months, it’s pointless to keep trying online dating. Give it more time and it’ll work wonders, as you’ll get better at online dating. Speaking of…
“I’ll just set up an online dating profile and leave it there”
Unfortunately, way too many online daters don’t invest enough time, energy, and effort into online dating. They think that they can simply sign up on an online dating site, and leave their dating profile hanging there. And they hope that hot Chinese women will be messaging them like crazy, their mail box will be flooded with requests to go on a first date, and they’ll have to hire a personal assistant who’ll be scheduling dates for them because there will be so many of them.
The truth is that most men are lazy when it comes to online dating, so they create a boring dating profile, upload a picture or two (where they don’t look their best, at all!), and that’s it. Well, guess what: don’t be surprised if you will be getting ZERO messages and beautiful sexy Chinese women will be rejecting you.
What you need is to truly put your full effort into online dating and it’ll eventually yield fruitful results. Think about it this way: would you create a mediocre resume if you were looking for a high-paying, top-notch job? You wouldn’t. The same goes for online dating. If you want to attract beautiful and smart Chinese girl, you’ll have to put some effort into constructing an appealing profile.
“No one is a good match for me”
It happens way too often that people give up online dating once they see that an X number of women aren’t a good match for them. Well, whether you’re dating Korean vs Chinese women, have you tried dating ALL of them? I mean, saying that “no one” is good for you is quite an exaggeration that prevents you from reaching your full potential on dating sites.
Every time you see a Chinese woman photo that you like, you think, “That’s the one!” But once you start chatting, you notice a thing or two you don’t like about her. Well, move on to the next one. There are plenty of single Chinese women out there. Don’t ever stop looking. There’s your significant other somewhere. You just haven’t found her yet.