20
Jun

ChnLove Chinese online dating review

Like any foreigner looking to meet a Chinese wife, I’m trying online dating. I’ve spent hundreds of hours and dollars browsing online dating websites just to meet the perfect Chinese lady to put a ring on her finger.

So far, my search continues, but I’ve accumulated enough online dating wisdom to put it together and share my online dating experience. I’ve been on this long journey for 4 years. That’s 2 serious relationships with two sexy Chinese women that unfortunately didn’t work out and 1 marriage that… well, I ruined it.

I’ve been a victim of online dating scams, I had a few hundred dollars stolen from me because I was foolish enough to click the wrong link from this fake Chinese lady that tricked me into thinking that she was in love with me… Listen, I’ve been through it all.

Chinese lady

I’ve seen fake and real Chinese women, I’ve been offered pay-for-sex deals by Chinese hookers. I’ve chatted with women that refused to talk via Webcam Live Chat because… well, the people I chatted with weren’t the women on their online dating profiles.

Been there, done that. Seen that, experienced it all. As I can’t take back all those years I lost in the online dating world, I don’t regret anything. Because now I’m able to share my wisdom and experience with other people venturing out into the mysterious, and oftentimes not-so-pretty world of online dating.

This was my impression about online dating until I signed up on ChnLove. “Oh, another online dating China website with fake ladies… Bring it on!” I thought. Much to my surprise, ChnLove turned out to be the most decent and the most REAL online dating service that exists on the Internet today.

Yes, it’s a little bit expensive, but I think paying a bit more for the actual opportunity to browse through authentic China lady profiles is better than spending a bit less and not being sure if the person you’re chatting with is even a woman!

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One of the things I like about ChnLove the most is that it offers its own translation services, which makes it much easier to interact with Chinese ladies. Most other Chinese online dating services don’t have that — but they definitely should.

Because let me tell you something: it’s not fun to be reading obviously-Google translated sentences by a Chinese lady who speaks little to no English and then sit there like an idiot for hours trying to decipher what the hell she means there? Is it a ‘yes’ or is that a ‘no’?

Anyway, that ridiculous Google translate circus ended when I started using ChnLove, and it became much easier for me to interact with Chinese ladies. So it’s definitely a big PLUS for ChnLove.

I had certain reservations about ChnLove when I signed up there, as I’ve been reading all kinds of comments on the Internet claiming ChnLove was a ‘scam’ website.

Well, from my point of view – the point of view of a person who has tried at least 5 other Chinese online dating services over the years – ChnLove is the least ‘scam’ than all other online dating platforms out there.

Sure, there are still scammers on ChnLove trying to steal your personal information and/or money, but aren’t they everywhere? That’s the world today: people are trying to scam you in every way possible.

But what’s most notable is that while I was ripped off on other online dating websites, I’ve never been a victim of any type of scam on ChnLove. You can’t really blame any dating site for there are no right people for you or your date there scammed you. I mean, it happens. Especially if you don’t be alert.

There are plenty of gold diggers and prostitutes out there – but most Chinese women I’ve chatted with on ChnLove (and that’s over 20 ladies) were authentic, as I usually ask for real-life pictures and chat with them via webcam to ensure that the lady is real.

I’ve had enough of that fake bullshit on other online dating websites, which is why I encourage other users to follow my strategy of spotting fakes on ChnLove.

These two years that I’ve been using ChnLove I have not received any suspicious link or file that could steal my personal data if I clicked on it. So that means ChnLove actually keeps an eye on that sort of stuff and verifies the profiles of Chinese women.

My best anti scam strategy on every online dating website is this (and it never ever failed me): (1) don’t click on suspicious links or download suspicious files and (2) don’t fall in love with women before you confirm she is real.

That can be done by asking the girl to send real-life, natural pics as well as by chatting via webcam with her. After you’ve made sure that she’s a real person, feel free to fall in love and take a plane to China to meet her.

My search for Chinese wife continues, but I can feel that ChnLove is the right online dating service to help me find my perfect lady – as I don’t want to waste no more time on other services out there. I’m 42 after all – it’s time to settle!!

24
May

Attention: Single Chinese Women Hate To Date Such Man

Last weekend, I had a dinner with several close female friends. They are Chinese-born beautiful ladies. During the dinner, we talked about dating Chinese girls and what women in China like and dislike when they are asked out by men. My friends shared their own experience and the typical stories of their friends. Now I have made a summary and work out several DON’T that men should avoid when dating Chinese women. Hope it helpful to you guys.

Single Chinese Women Don’t Like Talkative Men

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Chinese women do not like talkative men

According to vast dating tips from the network, you are suggested to be positive and active, lead the conversation with interesting topics in order to avoid embarrassing silence. And that is not wrong, but make sure you are not overactive or talking too much. Remember it is communication, not a speech. You need to exchange ideas with her and get more understanding of each other. Besides, women themselves love speaking. They would rather find a boyfriend who is willing to hear her gossips. In China, many good looking girls tend to find this kind of men, who are plain, of medium height and maybe get a not high wage. Why? The majority of these men have nice personalities and they are a very good listener. So if you want to wake up her interest on you, then listen more to her and tell her your opinion and suggestion properly. Kids draw attention by endless speaking and jumping, but men by appropriate silence.

No! No! No!

Do you give a lot of NO or negative answers to a woman’s question? I suggest you should never do that any more. No one likes to find a boyfriend standing on the opposite site and expressing no approval all the time. And also Chinese ladies want to be pleased and favored. If you keep giving negative reactions to her, she may not show any resentful feeling during the date, but you will never see her again after that. However, it does not mean that you should Yes to all her ideas. It is alright to give a different opinion but in a gentle way instead of a forcing way. Do not begin your sentence with “I don’t think…”, “No, I…” or “But…”. Try these “Yes, you are right. And I …” ” You really have a special viewpoint on this. Most people just believe that…”. Be nice and gentle and ladies will be attracted by you.

Miserly, Excessively Frugal With Money.

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Arrange a romantic Chinese date for her

I think it is a basic manner to buy woman a meal. A date is not just about talking and exchanging ideas. She will grade you by your behaviours. What you order for a meal and your attitude to spend money always have an important effect on her decision to go out again with you. China lady pays so much attention to this not because she worship rich men. In her eyes, if the guy is excessively frugal with money, he must be a mean selfish man. So order some drinks and food at reasonable price and pay the bill forwardly for a successful Chinese date.

Of course, there are still some common dating rules suitable for dating Chinese girls. For example never be late for the appointment. Bring flowers or small gifts to her. In short , I really  hope you can benefit from my tips and wish you a successful date with your Chinese girl.