28
Nov

Always Choose Younger Chinese Women For Marriage?

 

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According to Chinese traditional, younger Chinese brides always receive higher value. Chinese men often discriminate against single women of 28 years and older. And an increasing number of single Chinese women has chosen to delay marriage to pursue higher education, which makes more and more Chinese girls leftover and difficult to find a husband. However, is it true that younger Chinese women always the best choices? Shall the single men always choose younger Chinese women for marriage? I don’t think so!

Chinese marriage market is now strained with Chinese women outnumbering women four to one. Plus modern Chinese women become more independent and well-educated, it greatly reduces men’s option! Since then, why not take Chinese ladies of 28 years and older into consideration? With well education, these ladies can maintain the family in a better way, and can certainly help the men in feeding the family.

Especially in China’s current economic environment, with the standard of living skyrocketing and the housing market demanding an am an a leg, a marriage with two financially stable individuals would definitely be far better than one that depends on only one earner. With such a social background, a matured and successful woman makes better marriage partner.

Elder women choose to spend the good times to better themselves by pursuing higher education, which helps to mold them become well-adjusted individuals. The ups and downs in the process of pursuing their goals assist them to develop the kind of strength of character and maturity which make them better lifetime partners than they would have been otherwise.

That’s to say, these women don’t loose their charm. Instead, they have their own advantages because they used these years wisely to make more out of themselves so that they have more to offer to whoever deserving to0 be their lifetime partners. Maturity gained through time and experiences is the key to successful marriage.

Therefore, younger Chinese women are not always the better options as a lifetime partner, especially in modern society. They are still young and don’t know how to handle obstacles and difficulties wisely and maturely. They have an unsteady heart and can’t resist any lures. A younger partner in a marriage may seem suitable initially, bu the years may still make this person change to a point that would make her/him less ideal to the other. Instead, a more mature and experienced person would provide more stability and performance to any marriage since they have already grown into who she or he really is!

In a word, younger women are not always the best options as lifetime partners. It depends on individuals. Suppose you are a man with a good economic background and you just want a younger lady to accompany you, then you can choose one from the younger beauties. If you are still a man who is striving for career and house, then I highly suggest finding a mature and well-educated who has the same goal with you and can walk forward with side by side!

10
Dec

ChnLove Review: Chinese Marriage Customs

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When marrying a Chinese wife, you need to follow Chinese Marriage Customs!

In China, marriage is considered to be one of the three most important things in one's whole life.  To marry beautiful Chinese women, you need to go through several different steps traditionally. Along with the society's progress and the transformation of people's thinking, current Chinese marriage customs are not as complicated as the traditional ones. But no matter how it was changed, the atmosphere created during the wedding is invariant – being ceremonious, enthusiastic, jubilant and auspicious. Here I’d like to list some customs which are still maintained in China today, hope it would be helpful for you to make your sweet plans with your Chinese fiancee.

ChnLove Review on Chinese Marriage Customs

1. Betrothal gift presenting to your Chinese girlfriend's family

Before getting married, people have to pay a formal visit to each other's parents. When visiting the girl's parents, the boy has to bring with him the betrothal gifts and money in order to show sincerity. In nowadays, betrothal gifts are usually golden or diamond jewelry. And the betrothal money differs from several thousands RMB to even hundreds of thousands depending on the boy’s financial condition. When the gifts and money are received, then both the girl and the boy are engaged. This was the grandest etiquette of the whole process of engagement. Prolific gifts are presented to the girl's family, symbolizing respect and kindness towards the girl's family as well as the capability of providing a good life for the girl.

2. Selecting the Wedding Date

When a new couple is engaged, what followed is a choice of the date of their marriage. Most people would favor a bank holiday or special Chinese festival for their relatives and friends to attend the wedding. However, quite a few others, especially those in the countryside, would probably ask a fortune-teller for a lucky date (usually an even number) so that their marriage would have “Double Happiness”.

3. Wedding ceremony with your Chinese bride to be

A formal Chinese wedding requires the bridegroom to pick up the bride at the bride's home after respectfully greeted the parents-in-law to be. Then the bridegroom will take his bride to the banquet location (the groom’s home or a restaurant) and wedding ceremony begins. Usually all relatives and friends will be invited and they will wish the new couple with all the best. One of the climaxes of the wedding is the tea ceremony, during which the bride and groom serve tea to their elders in a demonstration of piety. The acceptance of tea also shows acceptance of the son-in-law or daughter-in-law into the family, and seals the union in the eyes of all present. And the couple will probably move from table to table toasting the guests.

These customs have been continued in China for many years. However in the modern days, many young people try to skip most of these rituals or ceremonies. Some of them even just spend 9RMB to do the marriage registration without a wedding. They do this either because they think that new generations should not be confined by these old traditions, or some do so just because of economical reasons of trying not to spend as much money as possible. Actually not matter how luxury or simple the wedding performs, happiness of the two parties involved is the most important. Isn’t it?

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31
May

What You Must Know About Girls In Shanghai (Part I )

 

Many western men want to marry Chinese girls. Among them girls in Shanghai have the unique characteristics and dispositions. If you want to date Chinese girls from Shanghai, it is good for your Chinese marriage. This article deals with what you must know about them before you begin your dating on Chinese dating sites.

Shanghai----the big city

Shanghai----the big city

 

 

Shanghai

 

As an international metropolis of China, Shanghai is at the crossroads of Eastern and Wstern cultures. Her history and background put a decision to the women living in her. It is certain to any other city in China. Their thinking, behaviour and even manner carry the hallmark of Shanghai. Only by reading them can you understand its history of more than one hundred years.

 

 

 

Girls In Shanghai—A Combination Of Beauty And Charm.

excellent Chinese women from Shanghai

excellent Chinese women from Shanghai

 

Shanghai is a city of immigration and there are many advantages. The skin of girls in Shanghai is delicate, soft, fair and white face and they have slim figures and lovely features. Because of the historical reasons Shanghai girls are very creative in synergizing the best of Eastern and Western cultures, and seeking a new direction amidst the clashes and contradictions. The large numbers of cross cultural marriages between western men and girls in Shanghai and the special favor of foreign people have witnessed their ever-lasting charms. They are smart and clever whether it is their language or dressing up or their attitude in dealing with problems. To take the popular Qipao as an example, only in Shanghai can you see beautiful Chinese women in Qipao everywhere—in shopping departments, at restaurants and in cars. The traditional Chinese dress cannot conceal their ambitions.

 

 

Due to the deep and far reaching of western colonial culture and great metropolis the Chinese women in Shanghai are forever drawn by two carriages: the MATERIALA and the MENTAL. As a result, they have the distinctive charms and beauties. It is because of their indescribable attraction that they are the dream brides of many western guys and Chinese singles.

 

Beautiful Chinese girl from Shanghai looking for her true love

Beautiful Chinese girl from Shanghai looking for her true love

Their charms and beauties are demonstrated in three aspects. The first one is smartness, which is well-known to the world. Their smartness includes the elements of intelligence, curiosity, kindness and respect. The second one is ambition. They are ready to be the spotlight of the people at streets. They are experts at expressing themselves and like to be arresting. The last one is their unique disposition. The fascination thing and beauty of their disposition is hard to define and imitate. They are actively involved with the traditions and modern styles. They think about them, challenge them and make them their own.

For more information about Chinese women from Shanghai, please follow my posts.

 

31
Mar

Cinderella Marriage: Chinese Woman Marrying Presidential Candidate

Internet becomes an essential part in life. It is the most popular and important way for people to communicate with each other. You search resources for work, watch sports, have a video chat with your family, discuss with your friends and even find yourself a Chinese wife through the Internet. So amazing and powerful! Today I want to share a real Cinderella story which comes to reality with the help of Internet.
Wu Mulan, a China woman, used to work in a garment factory as an ordinary worker in Shenzhen, a city located in the southern China. She left her hometown to Shenzhen with her little daughter after she got divorced with her ex-husband more than ten years ago and struggled to live a better life in that lonely place. In 2003, she did well in work and life became stable and then her daughter had been a thirteen-year-old girl who could take care of herself. So she began thinking to find a lifetime partner. Then this Chinese single mother signed up in an Asian dating website to look for her second marriage. However, she never thought that she could met such a great man and became a wife of a Polish presidential candidate.
On the other hand, Stanislaw Tyminski, a Polish man long settled in Canada, had participated in the 1990 Polish presidential election and became the second strongest and promising candidate and also in the 2005 presidential election made himself the first offical candidate, by now he occupies an important position in Polish political arena. Before the wonderful encounter with his China love, he had gone through two marriages firstly with a Finnish girl and secondly with a Peruvian woman, from which he had got four children. Perhaps it is the same unhappy experience on marriage and both becoming single parent that make them feel right to each other.
” I had no idea on surfing online and also knew little about English at that time.” Wu Mulan talked about the difficulty she met during her Internet dating. She first asked her friends to translate emails for her and later she did not want to bother her friends to much and decided to write the emails by herself with the help of some translation software. Apart from that, Stanislaw used to demand a video chat with Wu, but she always refused that. She explained that she did not want him to judge her by her appearance and moreover she was incapable of chatting in English.  Although all these tough things they had gone through and they sometimes had misunderstanding because of the language barrier and cultural difference, the China lady and her Polish husband bravely overcame so much things and finally got together after two years communication.
They are now living in a four-story villa with their five daughters and sons in downtown Toronto. In an interview, Wu Mulan talked about their current life after the marriage. She goes to language school to improve English, and after school she does some housework and cooks meals for Stanislaw and their boys and girls. Sometimes they still have got problems on language and cultural differences. However, Wu Mulan said that communication does not necessarily rely on language. It is love that works in a communication and relationship.
What a beautiful and romantic transnational marriage! Two people from different country and different culture background got to know each other and become couple through a Chinese dating site. And I just want to say that love is without border, love can be everywhere, including online dating service.

Chinese wife and her Polish husband

Wu Mulan and Stanislaw