Most countries in the world have been exposed a great deal to what could be called ‘western culture’, or even now, what might be called ‘world culture’. This, however, is still not the case where China is concerned. The vast majority of Chinese girls born in mainland China for example, have a psychology that is very firmly rooted in their own culture. Actions and words that most of the other countries girls would find flattering or attractive, Chinese girls can find unattractive, and even sometimes insulting. From my own experience of dating western born Chinese girls and western women I’d have to say mainland Chinese females can be some of the most perplexing of females on the planet.
Are you the guy who is using a dating site to meet and date Chinese women for marriage? Are you often thinking about how to better your date with the single online Chinese girl you are in touch and how to set up a successful relationship with her? If yes, check the below top secrets for dating single Chinese women online.
Be dominant and direct – Chinese girls are naturally (usually) quite timid due to their strict upbringing, so they really respond well to a firm and authoritative manner, even more so than the average western woman. It’s important to be very dominant and direct, but also respectful at the same time.
Take your time – most Chinese women won’t give it up in the first correspondence, so you need to work for it over a few weeks. Get to know them, build deep levels of rapport and connection through EMF mail. Chinese girls love the whole fairy tale story because they are very romantic and soppy at heart, so concentrate on building a strong connection with them. Then move on to Live Chat, meeting up etc.
Ask good questions – this is a rule that applies to interacting in person as well, but it’s especially important in dating Chinese girls for marriage online because sometimes it can be hard to get people to reply to you (whether due to the massive amounts of mail they get everyday or simply because they don’t know how to respond to your introduction. Asking a few intelligent, well thought out questions, however, gives the Chinese woman a reason to respond, while at the same time showing something about yourself. Asking good questions can help you steer the conversation and help you know better about each other.
There are certain things you should NEVER do when around Chinese ladies:
Don’t tell her you have a “thing” for Chinese girls – this is the lamest thing you can ever say. It sounds weird – she will know you want her for sex, so don’t say it.
Don’t put her on a pedestal – it’s important to treat all women the same, otherwise you’re going to treat them differently to other women, which obviously makes you look needy.
Don’t talk about Chinese stereotypes – Talking about strict parents is boring and falls under the “no go” stereotypes, not to mention they are extremely frustrating to her as she’s heard them a thousand times before.
Don’t try to impress her with stupid Chinese related “facts” – do you think she cares about how many bicycles there are in Beijing? Of course not, so don’t reel of useless facts, they will just deter her.
Don’t be too shy or reserved – remember, when she doesn’t respond it’s not because she doesn’t like you, it’s because she’s shy, so you need to be the dominant one.
As I mentioned before, you’ll likely have to chat to a lot of ladies before you find the right Chinese bride. The good part is, you will be able to move on quickly, and so will they, and you should jump right back into the fray and try again. Persistence is a virtue with online dating and looking for your right Chinese wife, and being able to quickly acknowledge that something isn’t going to work will allow both of you to get back to your computers and strike up something new with the right Chinese woman for marriage.