Jun

Chnlove Club Dating Tips: Am I Falling in Love Too Quickly?

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In Chnlove Club (i.e. www.chnlove.com, also called “chinalove.com“), it is easy to get carried away by the gorgeous photos of the ladies, and some gentlemen may think they have fallen in love “at first sight”, or after exchanging a few letters. Actually, love is not something that happens over night. If it comes on too strong, it can burn out just as fast. So whatever you decide, take caution in your actions, and don’t make any quick decisions.

Make sure it’s the person you love and not the idea or image in your mind

First of all, don’t ever consider yourself being “in love” after merely viewing a few retouched photos and reading a few sweet letters. Being over impressed by still images on a PC screen and a few letters could be setting yourself up for disappointment. It’s far easier to fall in love with an idea and a dream than it is to fall in love with a person. Most online “love” is the love of an idea or a dream, or just in love with being in love. There are a lot of cases where people believe they are in love online, and find that there is nothing there when they meet in person, just a fading dream as reality wakes them up. So don’t let desperation to be cared about by a woman cloud your judgement. Falling in love on the internet does not happen over night. Slow down and use your mind to make serious life decisions.

Of course, many online relationships end up happy and successful. The trick is to make sure you ask the right questions, so that you can have an accurate idea of what she is really like. For example, you can ask her some realistic questions about her view on marriage and the future with you. Her answers can be quite revealing, and you can decide from there whether she meets your expectations. Be as honest as possible, and remember to ask for up-to-date, outdoor, full-body pictures, so that there are no surprises when you meet.

Be careful with saying the “L” word

There are a lot of different meanings to the word “love”, and different people have different perception of “love” and “being in love”. Nevertheless, everyone on Chnlove is hoping that their online relationships will develop into love, and has the impulse to express love someway or sometime.
However, you should be careful with timing, because most Chinese women do not trust foreigners who proclaim love not backed by action and time. It is more the actions that will determine your love rather than the words. In fact, if you say “I love you” in a letter after a short time, it could be a big turn-off for them. Love takes time to grow and it would be irresponsible to say “I love you” too soon. It is advisable to leave it till you meet the lady in person, when you’re sure that she is the one for you.

Jun

How to Avoid Dating Scams on Chnlove?

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Online dating is becoming increasingly popular these days. However, many dating sites, especially the free ones, are infested with scammers. Since Chnlove has a sound system to verify ladies’ profiles and protect against dating scams, it is likely to have much less scammers than other dating sites. Nevertheless, there are certain things you have to be aware of when using this site.

Be smart and avoid dating scams

Typical scenarios of Chnlove scams

Many men think women are impressed by money, and that sending a girl money will persuade her to marry him. This is totally the wrong way of finding a lady, and if you send money to a girl then you’ll end up with a gold digger wife. Like other dating sites, Chnlove undeniably has scammers who try to ask for money from men with various reasons like family problems, etc. In fact, it is not typical for a Chinese woman to discuss her family problems with someone she barely knows. It is fine if she just relieves her feelings in her letters. This means you gained her confidence. But if she wants you to send her some money to help her family you never even saw, it is the first red flag for you. Similarly, it is not traditional for Chinese women to ask for presents. Women appreciate men’s initiative. If she wants you to bring something from the USA characteristic of your country or state, souvenirs, it is normal. But any requests for a mink coat, a diamond ring, etc. are suspicious. Never send money to girls you meet on a dating site, as this will attract the wrong type of lady, and you’ll end up emptying your bank account faster than you thought possible.

Furthermore, To have the lady’s personal email means to correspond with her without spending money on translation and delivery services. But in this case, Chnlove is not responsible for the content of her letters. Thus you can’t ask for our help in case something arouses your suspicion. Please, keep in mind from the moment you have her private email your correspondence is no longer under our control.

Gorgeous Lady from Chnlove

Talk to your lady when suspicion arises

While it is true that scammers exist on Chnlove, please bear in mind that cultural and language differences can sometimes lead to honest misunderstandings. When in doubt, you are advised to firstly ask the lady for an explanation before jumping to conclusion. Asking is, in our opinion, the world’s most powerful and neglected secret to successful relationships and happiness. Good communication requires both people to be able to express themselves as well as ready to listen to the other, even when they are not in agreement or speak different languages. Given that you are communicating with someone from another culture, extra time and effort is required to make the relationship work. If both of you communicate and understand each other well, please continue. If not, you probably need to think twice, drop the communications, and keep looking and experimenting.

Jun

Chnlove Club Dating Tips: Things You Should Know about Chinese Dialects

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When dating Chinese women in Chnlove Club, it is helpful to learn some Chinese, which will not only make communication easier, but also show your sincerity to the lady. For thousands of years, Chinese people speak in hundreds of different dialects, but use only one written system, Han Character, which makes the written communication and culture inheritance possible. The separation of the written and spoken forms of the Chinese language provides a tie that holds the Chinese people together while gives a space for different expressions in daily lives.

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Chnlove Club dating tips: differences among Chinese dialects

The Chinese language can be roughly divided into seven major varieties, among which Mandarin and Cantonese are most widely used. Mandarin is the official language of Mainland China. Cantonese is mainly spoken in Hong Kong, Guangdong(Canton) and Guangxi Province. The purest Mandarin is spoken in Northeast China. All varieties of Chinese are tonal. This means that each syllable can have a number of different meanings depending on the intonation with which it is pronounced. For example Mandarin has 4 tones, Cantonese has between 6 and 9 tones, and Taiwanese has 7 tones.

Because the major varieties of Chinese are mutually unintelligible, it is not unsual for Chinese to write down their destination and give it to a taxi driver if they are visiting a strange city. The driver often can’t understand their dialect, but the writing means the same. Nevertheless, nowadays most people in China who don’t speak Mandarin as their first language, can speak or at least understand it a bit. So even if your lady’s home dialect is Cantonese, it is most likely that she can still speak Mandarin. However, in Hong Kong and Macau few people speak Mandarin, so they tend to use English to communicate with people from other parts of China. Furthermore, each of the major varieties of Chinese has numerous dialects. For example, Mandarin can be divided into northern, southern and south-western dialects, which are more or less mutually intelligible.

Which Chinese dialect should I learn?

When you spend some time in Chnlove Club for a while, you will fall for many beautiful Chinese women. If and when you find your match, you should ask her which language she speaks. Mandarin is the officail dialect of the PRC, but you should learn whatever your lady’s dialect is. However, unless you plan to live in China, you should concentrate on helping her with YOUR language, then she can help you to learn some of hers. From my personal experience, although my Mandarin is not good, and my wife’s English is not good either, we will still spend up to an hour on the telephone with each other several times per week. Between the poor English and Poor Mandarin, we still undertand each other quite well. Plus, it is so much fun!

May

Chnlove Review: What is a Traditional Chinese Woman?

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Chnlove dating site review: I have been a member of Chnlove for quite a while, and noticed that the phrase “traditional Chinese woman” is written in almost every lady’s profile. So what exactly does it mean? In my opinion, a traditional Chinese woman is all about devotion to her family.

Oriental Beauty from Chnlove

Chnlove review: family values for traditional Chinese women

A traditional Chinese woman puts family before anything, and believes in filial piety. She does not have bad habits like gambling, smoking or drinking which may compromise the well-being of the family. A traditional Chinese woman is loyal and submissive, and makes every endeavour to please her husband in everyday life. She takes primary and sole responsibility for the household, i.e, cooks, cleans, washes, tidies, and takes full care of the children’s needs. She is a skilled administrator of the home, and will serve her husband tea when he walks in the door, and massage his tired shoulders in the evening. She is boss of the home but never bosses the man. She is loyal and even subservient to the man’s parents, respectful of his elder siblings.

What does a traditional Chinese woman expect from her husband?

In return, a traditional Chinese woman expects her husband to provide the economic security, physical safety and strategic direction for her and their children and the family’s future. She fully expects her husband to be capable, wise, provide leadership and be able to progress the social positioning of the family. As long as he provides well for her future, she will surely follow and provide companionship to complete the Chinese way of a tight family circle. That balances out the equation quite well. As long as both parties fully understand and keep up their end of the bargain and meet the other’s expectation, all goes well. Of course, included also in the deal is love, tenderness, respect, and loyalty.

Modern version of a traditional Chinese woman

Like their Western counterparts, Chinese women have become more independent, and they rely less and less on men. China has changed so much in recent years, and you may find that, just as the countryside is rapidly diminishing and being replaced by the metropolis, these traditional values are also changing. Nowadays, many Chinese women are well educated and have their own opinions. They expect to have an equal say in the family. Traditional women are probably more prevalent in smaller cities or villages, and perhaps the more mature Chinese ladies in their 40s, 50s and above, still hold the original traditional values strongly. So, traditional Chinese ladies are still out there, but maybe slightly more modern to suit the modern times.

May

Why are western gentlemen interested in Chinese women on Chnlove?

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Traditional, family-orientated, faithful, considerate or tolerant? They may be a bit different from Western ladies. What do you know about Chinese women on Chnlove? Learn some basic facts about them now.

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1. Chinese women are faithful and family-orientated

In fact, Chinese women are very loyal and faithful to their husbands and families. It is worthy to try your best to show your sincerity and care for her; make her believe that you are the best choice for her. It would be a good way to talk about subjects like what she does in daily life, her difficulties at work, and perhaps her family.

2. Chinese women are tender and considerate

Chinese women are always willing to share their beloved’s pressure and sorrow. If you are having difficulties or trouble in life or work, don’t be afraid to share it with your lady. If you care for each other, she will always be ready to give you encouragement, comfort and support, and see it as an honor to be your significant other. Don’t run away or hide your weakness from your beloved lady. She will worry about you and get upset if you don’t trust her enough.

3. Chinese women are traditional and conservative

Generally speaking, Chinese women are still conservative about online communication. They do stress about online dating because they agonize over the decision to meet strangers from the other side of the globe. It is not uncommon to see them turning away their potential mates from abroad because of poor communication. It happens because they are too afraid to talk, since honest representations may hurt their mutual relationship build-up. That’s how they feel inside.

4. Chinese women are virtuous and tolerant

Chinese women are very courteous, feminine and tolerant. It is unusual for them to quarrel with someone over trivial things. In general, they can easily put down your anger whenever there is a misunderstanding as they are good at making peace. However, like any other woman in this world, Chinese women do not like to be distrusted. So, when there are accusations of infidelity or other online liaisons with other men, it can possibly spark major rows simply because no one likes to be the subject of such affairs in a relationship. Love is based on trust and sincerity. Please do not question whether she is communicating with others. Once she decides you are the one for her, the other gentlemen are not in her eyes. Also, don’t let her know you are writing or meeting several women at the same time. When it comes to love, every woman easily gets jealous.

Apr

How does Chnlove.com Deal with Dishonest Practices?

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Chinese Lady from Chnlove

Chnlove.com cooperates with reputable local dating and marriage agencies throughout China, which provide a diversified range of matchmaking service. The success of Chnlove is not only due to the unrivaled dedication to customer service and the unique way in which we constantly adapt to an ever-changing world, but also comes from our firm commitment to protection against fraudulent practices.

What kind of agencies are qualified to cooperate with Chnlove.com?

In order to become an official service provider for Chnlove, a local matchmaking agency must be legally registered, and have qualified translators responsible for handling the translation of EMF Mails, Admirer Mails, Cupid Notes and other services provided by Chnlove. Qualified agencies are required to sign a Sincere Service Agreement with Chnlove and to comply with all the terms and conditions of the Agreement, accept to adhere to Chnlove’s defined procedures in handling mails and lady profile registration.

How does Chnlove.com supervise the agencies?

Chnlove is built as a third-party platform, and therefore unable to directly supervise the daily conducts of each agency. Nevertheless, we take a number of measures to obtain feedbacks from our male members, who are the direct supervisors of all the potential fraudulent cases and uneven quality of service.

1.Feedback rating system
Chnlove has built an effective feedback rating system, so that services provided by agencies can be evaluated in two ways:
a.EMF Mail satisfaction rate
This rating is based on the male member’s experience of using the EMF service. Male members have the chance to rate each EMF reply of the lady translated and transferred by the agency. According to our statistics, most of the agencies have a satisfaction rate of 80% and above.

b.Feedback rating on the visit to the agency
This rating is from the male members who have visited the agency or the ladies. Male members are invited to rate the agency based on their personal experience.

2. Reporting abuse
Chnlove provides a way for our members to report abusive, pornographic or other inappropriate contents in the Admirer Mails and Cupid Note responses. If you spot any inappropriate contents, you can report it to us simply by clicking the “report abuse” link in the corresponding page. This will help us improve our monitoring and management efforts.

3. Filing your complaints to us
If you’re unhappy with our service for any reason, you can also submit a ticket to our Customer Service Team, stating the details of your concerns or complaints. Our Customer Service Team will immediately look into the matter, and provide you with any possible help and solution.

What does Chnlove do when dishonest practices occur?

Chnlove’s Customer Service Team and Quality Assurance Department will try their best to resolve cases of inappropriate acts. We will consider the circumstances of an alleged offence and the user’s correspondence record before taking action. Once the dishonest practice is proven beyond reasonable doubt, Chnlove will take disciplinary actions against the relevant agency, ranging from a formal warning up to indefinite suspension of the agency’s account. The male member who has fallen victim to such dishonest practice will be compensated accordingly. This demonstrates Chnlove’s determination to pursue and close down harmful activities that threaten the interests of members communicating on the site.

Apr

For Your Romantic Dating On ChnLove

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Every thing is changing but true love will never change. Then how to have true and forever love. There are many forceful examples of true love on ChnLove. If you are a beginner on the road of finding your true love on ChnLove, the following information can be of great help to your romantic and successful dating on ChnLove.

Chinese girl on ChnLove

1. No pains, no gains.Happy and sweet moments are the fruit of ups and downs in life. It is no exception to love on ChnLove(Cross cultural love between Chinese girls and foreign gentlemen). Only after you and your dating partner overcome the setbacks can you and your online girl feel that it is not easy to earn true love. Then both of you will cherish each other most and become more affectionate with each other. So during the online dating period, it is normal and understanding to have hardships. What we should do is come up with a solution not to be beaten down by them.

2. Dating on Chnlove is a process of two-way selection. As long as you have not reached the degree of marrying you it is possible for you to break up with each other. It is good for females to get prepared for breakup.

3. We must recognize that relationship grows step by step no matter it is in real life or in virtual networks. Both parties of dating on ChnLove need gradual understanding to achieve mutual coadaption. Never invest too much emotion in the beginning. Otherwise, if your dating becomes unhappy, you will be greatly hurt you have too much investment of spirit and heart.

4. When dating on ChnLove or in real life itself what we should do is to find the merits not to pick up with the faults. It is a procedure of promoting understanding from acquaintance to ardent love. Don’ t be worried about the slight weak points which do not matter much. Nobody is perfect.

5. Dating is between you and the girl you date. You can refer to the advice of your parents but the primary factor in determining the success of dating is your affection foundation. If your parents do not agree with your union with your Chinese girl, you do not have to be painful. The key is that you love each other. Then you can work around with them to persuade.

If you have some problems before or during dating on ChnLove, read the information above. Your confidence to bear the pain and your courage will increase greatly. Maybe you come up with a good solution to the problems between you and the loving girl. Screw up your courage to date the girl you like.