There are pros and cons of using a professional dating service like ChnLove. Most members agree the selection of beautiful, sincere Chinese women for marriage is unbeatable, and the quality of services is top-notch. However, one common point of contention is that members are not allowed to directly exchange personal contact details on the site. The only way for members to exchange personal information is by meeting face-to-face with a Cupid Date. Now, while this policy has probably created some inconvenience for couples on the site, it has also undoubtedly prevented countless misfortunes and protected the interests of ChnLove members.
To illustrate this point, consider this experience one member had on another dating site which allowed direct exchange of contact details. After corresponding for several months, the gentleman informed the lady that he would be traveling to her country. When he arrived, he emailed the lady and told her that there was an accident and that he lost all his money and credit cards. Of course, the lady was very trusting and agreed to send him a large sum of money to cover his expenses, to be paid back when they met. Well, needless to say the man turned out to be a scammer and this trusting lady lost a great deal.
ChnLove is dedicated to preventing this kind of situation from occurring. Once members have actually met face to face with a Cupid Date, their relationship is already solid enough to have mitigated the risk of dishonest behavior. While the reason for this policy is certainly well-meaning, some gentlemen have expressed that they are not able to go on a Cupid Date for personal reasons, and that there should be an alternative path to prove that their relationship is solid enough to allow the exchange of personal contact information. After careful consideration, ChnLove agreed. In the coming weeks, sincere gentlemen will now have another option for how to get the personal contact information of their favorite lady: Request Contact Information service.
The basic idea is the same as before; that members should have achieved a sufficient level of engagement before they are allowed to contact each other in private, to help ensure the safety of all parties. The new threshold for requesting contact information is straightforward. Members should meet three basic criteria: (1) correspond with the lady for at least 10 EMF mails; (2) get the Qpid Trust Seal and; (3) keep a good track record on the site for at least 90 days. Once these requirements are fulfilled, just fill out some forms and you can request your favorite lady's personal email address, postal address and mobile phone number. This is a win-win solution which enable members to have the increased flexibility that they want, while still ensuring the safety and security of each and every member on the site!