17
Aug

Are you emotionally intelligent?

Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is an idea that has been around a while, and relates to how savvy someone is at dealing with and managing their emotions and those of others. A high EQ is helpful in all walks of life, but especially dating. If your goal is dating Chinese women, finding hot and sexy Chinese girls, for instance, emotional intelligence can help you find and develop a relationship with Chinese girls and others. You might meet Asian women and China single women online, but how you act after you meet, how you respond to her, your ability to get along and build a relationship, all depends on your EQ. To go from a Chinese beautiful woman photo, to actually dating her, you will need know the typical characteristics of Chinese women, and work on your emotional intelligence.

To better your chances, it helps to see what Emotional Intelligence looks like. Below is a list of characteristics with brief explanations.

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Emotionally intelligent people:

  1. Have a good “emotional vocabulary.”
    Everyone has feelings, but not all of us can identify them. High EQ people work with a “vocabulary” of emotions they find in themselves and others.
  2. Are curious about other people
    If you are curious about others, you probably have a lot of empathy. The ability to empathize with others is a major factor in emotional intelligence.
  3. Embrace change
    Fear of change can be debilitating, so high EQ people embrace it and plan for any changes that might be just over the horizon.meet Asian women
  4. Know their strengths and weaknesses
    If you know what causes you emotional distress and in what situations you excel, you can rely on your strengths to make up for the weaknesses and get through tough times.
  5. Are good judges of character
    Much of EQ concerns the ability to “read” people. Long-term use of this skill can make someone a very good judge of character.
  6. Are difficult to offend
    Self-confidence and open mindedness are important in emotional intelligence, and are prominent in people who are not easily offended.
  7. Know how to say no (to themselves and everyone else)
    High EQ people are assertive and have self-control. Therefore, they do not feel obligated to do take on additional tasks when someone asks, and won’t overly indulge themselves.
  8. Let go of mistakes
    While it is important to remember and learn from your mistakes, emotionally intelligent people also distance themselves from their mistakes and don’t let memories of them take center stage in their lives.
  9. Give and expect nothing in return
    Strong relationships can be built this way. When you cut a neighbor’s lawn or present someone with a copy of a book they had talked about, it makes a powerful impression.
  10. Don’t hold grudges
    Negative emotions associated with grudges can be detrimental. The stress of these emotions trigger your fight-or-flight response and cause even more stress.
  11. Neutralize toxic people
    High EQ people avoid negative, “toxic” people. When they can’t, they confront them with a rational approach. Along these lines, they don’t let anyone “rain on their parade” when they are happy.
  12. Don’t seek perfection
    Since it doesn’t exist, perfection is not a good target for goal-setting. Avoid stress of missing unrealistic goals, and feel better when reaching goals you can achieve.
  13. Appreciate what they have and disconnect
    Being grateful for what you have has been found to improve mood and reduce stress. Taking downtime also helps manage stress.

If you don’t see yourself in many of these, ask yourself what you might do to develop your EQ. The choice is yours: you can resign yourself to just looking at Chinese sexy girls pictures online, or you can develop your emotional intelligence, improve your chances of developing a strong relationship with the woman of your dreams. The next time you see beautiful Chinese women pics, you might just be looking at your own girlfriend!

10
May

Things To Know When Seeking Chinese Women For Marriage

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beautiful Chinese women for marriage on ChnLove.com

Chinese women are well known for their incredible beauty, loyalty and family values. That’s why more and more Westerners are now looking for Chinese brides. But Chinese women for marriage can be tricky to understand sometimes, especially for someone from a different culture. So before you date or marry a Chinese woman, here are a few things you should know. These facts are important if you want the relationship to be happy and successful.

1. A Chinese woman’s expectation of marriage is based on her own culture and not yours. So don’t assume that she knows what marriage is like in your country. I’m sure you’ve heard that Chinese girls are ‘traditional’, and in actual fact, the more traditional they are considered in Chinese culture, the less likely they will be able to adapt to you or your culture.
2. When a Chinese woman is attracted to a man, she will do things in a subtle and indirect way to show her attraction, but without knowing the cues and signs it may pass you by. For example,if she tells you to take care of your health, or when the weather is changing to wear more clothes, this is not simply a throw-away statement, as it is in western culture: she is trying to show that her feelings for you are deeper than just friendship. Besides, you should know that when dating Chinese women, they rarely show their true character until after a great amount of time, sometimes not even until after marriage! So working out her true character beforehand is a must.

3. Although Chinese girls are known to be submissive, they are seldom submissive after you really get to know them. The submissive nature you may see at the beginning of the relationship is simply a cultural influence that may gradually disappear over time and be replaced by her true character, which can be anything from generous, loving and kind, to selfish, bossy and materialistic. Find out what it really is beforehand.

4. To attract or date a Chinese woman you must display ‘stability’, among other things. If you have a history of short term relationships, it’s almost certainly best not to mention it, because she will simply assume you are a player that doesn’t want to settle down. Casual relationships are generally not acceptable in China. She will be very unlikely to consider a relationship with you, no matter short-term or long-term. The majority of Chinese men keep their relationship history secret, and with good reasons too!

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6
Nov

Five Tips for Successfully Dating Chinese Women

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To date hot Chinese girl like Mindy on ChnLove!

Suppose Asian beauties are your taste, then dating Chinese women could rock your world. That’s because Chinese girls are no doubt beautiful, smart and sensuous. The point is that they come with an interesting culture that you tend to love. No matter you are fond of a shy and brown-eyed Chinese girl or a sexy and stunning one, you should take priority to master some secrets which can help you to successfully date oriental beauties.

Secret 1, be interested in Chinese culture.

Chinese women have a bias on selecting a future partner who shows great interest and respect to oriental culture. When dating a Chinese girl, you can show her your interest in her culture, tradition, food, religious, etc. For example, you can think of doing your grocery in an Asian food store, or becoming a repeated customer at a Chinese restaurant, or participating in her traditions. Your respect for Chinese history and your passion towards Chinese culture may add yourself a great score.

Secret 2, Let your body do the talking.

Sometimes, a hug can worth a thousand words for lovers. Chinese women like strong and manly guys instead of those shy and timid ones. You should try your best to catch any Chinese woman’s attention with your broad shoulders, chest sticking out, and solid, confident stride, so as to stand out above a sea of white men.

Secret 3, befriend her friends.

Chinese girls get used to invite their friends to test or confirm their official or potential boyfriends. That’s to say, her friend’s judgment works a lot on her impression towards you. Thus, befriending her friends is a useful way to shorten the distance. Even though you are dating a Chinese girl who you are not that interested in, you can also take her the bridge to know more of her friends. Maybe you will find one of your satisfaction.

Secret 4. properly say flattery words.

Every women wants to hear the sweet or flattery words from someone she loves. That telling a Chinese girl she is pretty would definitely please her. Or you can praise her like a movie star! Or you can tell your lady that she is so beautiful that you can not help thinking about her, so that she can warm up to you.

Secret 5, love your Chinese girl extremely.

In Chinese tradition, women are considered to be the property of a man. Therefore, Chinese men love to favor their lady with money and expensive commodities. And Chinese women feel that they are the treasures of their men. You have firmly fastened her via this wisdom way!

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