22
Aug

Dating Physically Attractive Men Makes Women Unhappy, Study Shows

Here’s a study that will surely give you more confidence the next time you meet a sexy Chinese girl.

Turns out, hot Chinese women tend to be happier when dating LESS physically attractive man.

A recent study involving 113 married couples studied how the attractiveness of men affects the overall level of happiness in women.

Researchers at Florida State University found that fine Chinese women tend to be happier when their partner is not very attractive.

That’s because when their partner looks like a Hollywood actor or model, asian girls are more inclined to obsess over diets, fitness and their overall appearance.

By contrast, Asian beautiful ladies that are dating an Average Joe – rather than a Chris Hemsworth-looking dude – are less likely to obsess with their body image and desirability in order to boost self-esteem.

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Dating Attractive Guys Has ‘Negative Consequences’ For Women

The study stands in stark contrast to the centuries-old stereotype that hot Chinese women are un-datable and even un-approachable for men with average looks.

The next time you approach a beautiful Asian girl and think “oh, she’s out of my league,” you may want to recall the findings of this study.

Researcher Tania Reynolds  said the study reveals that “having a physically attractive husband may have negative consequences for wives.”

This is especially true for Asian girls that are not particularly attractive themselves, the study concluded.

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Study: Dating Handsome Guys is a Terrible Mistake

There’s a very reasonable explanation why the findings of the study make sense.

A traditional Chinese lady that is less attractive than her man is psychologically determined to do whatever it takes to look her best – whether it’s obsessing over every calorie, putting on tons of makeup every day or wearing clothes that make her more desirable.

It’s a well-known fact that happiness in a relationship can be achieved only through comfort, and the aforementioned obsessive behaviors don’t provide Asian girls with comfort.

When average-looking guys date Asian women that are more attractive than them, it’s quite the opposite. A beautiful Asian girl isn’t obsessing much about her looks and isn’t trying to ‘beat’ her man’s looks.

A woman that is more attractive than her man is more likely to eat a fast food without feeling guilty afterwards, which also plays a major role on the woman’s happiness.

What to Do if You’re More Attractive than Your Girl?

It doesn’t mean, however, that if you’re dating a less attractive girlfriend or are married to an average-looking girl you should break up with her.

Mrs. Reynolds suggests that even less-attractive girl – more-attractive guy couples can be happy. And this can be achieved through men showering their women with compliments.

The expert advises men to remind their girlfriend that they are beautiful no matter what her body type or weight is. It’d also help to emphasize on the girl’s other strengths such as kindness, good sense of humor and ambitiousness.

Well…What Does it Mean for Attractive Guys?

Multiple other studies over several decades have confirmed that when men go looking for Asian girls, they are happier with more attractive women.

Meaning: if a man is dating a sexy Chinese girl, he’ll be more happy in a relationship with her than he would if he was dating a less attractive woman.

Despite this clearly being a double-standard situation, this does solve a lot of problems in the dating world.

Less attractive men can feel more confident when approaching Asian beautiful ladies, not fearing about the “she’s out of my league” nonsense.

Meanwhile, hot Chinese women can benefit from dating average-looking men and not chase all those muscular, hot dudes.

But what does it mean for attractive guys out there? Are they doomed to be alone and miserable for the rest of their life? Not necessarily.

Guys with good looks should be looking for Asian girls that are equally attractive. Basically, if you’re a 8/10, you should be looking for a 7/10, 8/10 (ideally), or 9/10.

24
Jun

4 Mistakes You Should Never Make with Chinese Girls

dating mistakes with Chinese girls

It is not always easy to date someone from a different culture, especially from an old, conservative culture. If you are not aware of the cultural differences, your dating experience could turn into a complete nightmare. Being a Chinese girl myself, I would like to warn you against some common mistakes you should try to avoid when dating a Chinese girl.

First of all, don’t be in a hurry. As the old Chinese saying goes: “You can’t eat hot tofu if you’re in a hurry”. Same rule applies to Chinese women, especially the hot Chinese women. In most cases, your usual quick pick-up methods will not work. So don’t try to approach a Chinese girl on the street and ask for her phone number as your second sentence after saying hi. This is considered to be playboy’s behavior and will not earn you any points. Chinese women are generally very conservative.So don’t misunderstand when a Chinese girl says that she is open-minded. What she probably means is that she is outgoing and easy to get along with. At the early stage of dating a Chinese girl, never send her overtly suggestive messages because she may feel very embarrassed and it can be a serious turn-off. Sex and intimacy is, especially for conservative, older Chinese, a subject that is not to be discussed openly. Just go slow and convince her that you are worth her time and she will open up to you eventually.

Don’t talk about your romantic past. Save the spicy stories about your one night stands for your male friends. Most Chinese girls have very traditional ideas about this. Casual relationships are generally not acceptable. So if you have a history of short-term romance, it’s almost certainly best not to mention it.

Don’t send her expensive presents before she is your girlfriend. It will only pressure a girl and put her in an uncomfortable situation thinking she owes you something. Of course, after she becomes your girlfriend, you can buy her valuable things to show her how much you care.

Don’t go Dutch! In China, “going Dutch” at a restaurant and offering money in public will be seen as rude, and the person will “lose face”. So don’t even think about sharing the bill with your date. Any man who brings his Chinese girlfriend and her family out to a meal, is expected to pay for all. This is also to prove to the family that he is capable of providing for their daughter.

Bearing these simple rules in mind will save you from many troubles. Good luck!

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