Who likes being cheated? No-one, and that includes Chinese girls. Keeping your honesty increases your chances to finally win her. Once a Chinese girl starts to trust you, the succeeding steps become easier to surpass. Trust is gained by being honest.
Chinese women will not necessarily say what they are feeling. They are more likely to show you how they feel about you through their actions. Chinese women may look after you by buying things or making you good food. They may help you choose an outfit and help you to look good, or they will look after you if you are sick. This is how they express their affection as they may be too shy to express their deeper feelings. When she trusts you completely she will tell you how she feels.
Always be truthful. Even in the situations where even a small lie could get you out of lots of trouble, don’t do it. Your Chinese girl will find out about everything you do and you will not get away with it.
Make sure she finds out first above anybody if you have done anything to mess up. Anytime you hear something bad that your partner did before they tell you, you always presume worse than what it actually is. Friends always distort the truth to your girlfriend, and eventually the truth will get out. It’s always better to hear first-hand what happened, and to seek forgiveness then.
Make sure you trust her. Without your trust for your Chinese lady, she definitely won’t be able to trust you. To know if you trust her, think of situations you would want to do, and if you could see your girlfriend doing those same things. For instance if you wanted to hang out with some girls at the mall, see if you could imagine her doing the same thing with guys. If not, then understand that some things fall beyond trust, including putting yourself into tempting situations.
Keep your promises. To do this, make sure your promises are realistic, and you are willing to follow through before making them. If you are not able to, don’t promise or it will cause more hurt than anything. Promises could be small or large in perspective but realize that making a promise is long term and can affect both you and her future.