22
Aug

Dating Physically Attractive Men Makes Women Unhappy, Study Shows

Here’s a study that will surely give you more confidence the next time you meet a sexy Chinese girl.

Turns out, hot Chinese women tend to be happier when dating LESS physically attractive man.

A recent study involving 113 married couples studied how the attractiveness of men affects the overall level of happiness in women.

Researchers at Florida State University found that fine Chinese women tend to be happier when their partner is not very attractive.

That’s because when their partner looks like a Hollywood actor or model, asian girls are more inclined to obsess over diets, fitness and their overall appearance.

By contrast, Asian beautiful ladies that are dating an Average Joe – rather than a Chris Hemsworth-looking dude – are less likely to obsess with their body image and desirability in order to boost self-esteem.

beautiful Asian girl

Dating Attractive Guys Has ‘Negative Consequences’ For Women

The study stands in stark contrast to the centuries-old stereotype that hot Chinese women are un-datable and even un-approachable for men with average looks.

The next time you approach a beautiful Asian girl and think “oh, she’s out of my league,” you may want to recall the findings of this study.

Researcher Tania Reynolds  said the study reveals that “having a physically attractive husband may have negative consequences for wives.”

This is especially true for Asian girls that are not particularly attractive themselves, the study concluded.

Asian girls

Study: Dating Handsome Guys is a Terrible Mistake

There’s a very reasonable explanation why the findings of the study make sense.

A traditional Chinese lady that is less attractive than her man is psychologically determined to do whatever it takes to look her best – whether it’s obsessing over every calorie, putting on tons of makeup every day or wearing clothes that make her more desirable.

It’s a well-known fact that happiness in a relationship can be achieved only through comfort, and the aforementioned obsessive behaviors don’t provide Asian girls with comfort.

When average-looking guys date Asian women that are more attractive than them, it’s quite the opposite. A beautiful Asian girl isn’t obsessing much about her looks and isn’t trying to ‘beat’ her man’s looks.

A woman that is more attractive than her man is more likely to eat a fast food without feeling guilty afterwards, which also plays a major role on the woman’s happiness.

What to Do if You’re More Attractive than Your Girl?

It doesn’t mean, however, that if you’re dating a less attractive girlfriend or are married to an average-looking girl you should break up with her.

Mrs. Reynolds suggests that even less-attractive girl – more-attractive guy couples can be happy. And this can be achieved through men showering their women with compliments.

The expert advises men to remind their girlfriend that they are beautiful no matter what her body type or weight is. It’d also help to emphasize on the girl’s other strengths such as kindness, good sense of humor and ambitiousness.

Well…What Does it Mean for Attractive Guys?

Multiple other studies over several decades have confirmed that when men go looking for Asian girls, they are happier with more attractive women.

Meaning: if a man is dating a sexy Chinese girl, he’ll be more happy in a relationship with her than he would if he was dating a less attractive woman.

Despite this clearly being a double-standard situation, this does solve a lot of problems in the dating world.

Less attractive men can feel more confident when approaching Asian beautiful ladies, not fearing about the “she’s out of my league” nonsense.

Meanwhile, hot Chinese women can benefit from dating average-looking men and not chase all those muscular, hot dudes.

But what does it mean for attractive guys out there? Are they doomed to be alone and miserable for the rest of their life? Not necessarily.

Guys with good looks should be looking for Asian girls that are equally attractive. Basically, if you’re a 8/10, you should be looking for a 7/10, 8/10 (ideally), or 9/10.

17
Jul

Things woman look for in a man before falling for him

Each pretty Chinese woman doesn’t just fall for any given man. They are very specific about what they want in a man, and in most cases, you may not score all, but some aspects in you will stand out.

Some sexy Asian women may not even know it when they highlight these traits. They unconsciously make the decision and it’s up to you to be aware of what she prefers.

Chinese lady

Just as a man has specific sexual preferences in a sexy Chinese girl, they have unique preferences when it comes to appearances.

This post takes you through these traits that an  Asian woman looks out for so as to help you become a better man. Besides the tips enlisted here, know your Chinese lady and do what it takes to become the man of her dreams.

pretty Chinese woman

  1. A man who is sure of himself

Every woman will consciously or unconsciously look out for this trait in a man. Some may refer to it as self-confidence, others self-belief, but it has to do with just one thing – a man who is unshaken about himself. It is a trait that makes a man get a perfect look in the eyes of the lady.

  1. Good Grooming

An Asian lady whom you’ve never met and this is your very first-time encounter will only see one thing in the first few seconds – how you’ve groomed. That is why every man is led by the golden rule of looking good all the time, no matter where you are. You may just be up and about when you all of a sudden meet the woman you have always envisioned. Make sure you smell great all the time and your clothes are in shape.

  1. A man who has a sense of humor

Different researchers have consistently shown that Chinese ladies like a guy who can make them laugh. She wants you to put a smile on her face and that smile in return will get you closer to her heart. No lady thinks of spending the rest of her life with a guy who is ever leaving her gloomy. She wants to smile as she thinks of the things you told her. That’s not to say that you become a comedian. No. Read around for some two, three jokes for that dinner or a sweet, funny bed time story.

  1. Good Conversational skills

A satisfactory conversation is one in which you know how to talk and how to listen. Giving your Chinse lady sufficient time to talk about her busy day, express her concerns and talk about her goals in life is a key thing to winning her heart. A woman wants a man with whom she can hold a fulfilling conversation and get to learn about that person. Men should consider a conversation as a way to sell themselves to the women they bump into.

  1. Respect is at the heart of most women

Many gorgeous Asian women consider respect as a key ingredient in a relationship. Therefore, before she falls for you, she must ascertain that you are respectful to her. Her overall judgment is that if you can do it now, you will do so when she becomes your lady. Besides just you respecting her, you must also be well respected. This kind of a man is adored by many women.

  1. A good physique

A man who takes some few hours to hit the gym is more attractive than one who doesn’t. Take the extra step and build those biceps to increase your attraction amongst women. Remember that appearance is one of the key things that women get attracted to first. Besides that, the effort you put in to ensure you are physically fit makes you come across as a man who would do anything to achieve whatever he sets his eyes on.

  1. A good career

Without beating about the bush, every woman wants a man who has a good job that pays well enough to guarantee a better future. With finance, there is security in the house. It is this that will help you provide breakfast in bed and go out for a vacation in Miami. So never forget the finance factor as a man. Work hard to always improve your financial rating.