11
Apr

Chnlove Antiscam: Have you been ‘mosted’ by Chinese Women?

Have you ever been MOSTED? Has someone been MOSTING you all along, without your even knowing it? If this sounds like something new to you, then you’d better find out what these terms mean before you even go off dating Chinese women.

chnlove antiscam,Chinese lady,

Just to keep you on track, GHOSTING used to be the most popular trend in dating, that is, until mosting happened. If you have no idea what ghosting means in the first place, then be forewarned that it’s when your future partner-to-be suddenly disappears. After going out on a series of dates with a sexy Chinese lady, there she goes – gone from your life.

Worse than having “gone girls” run away from you and ruin any semblance of a relationship with sexy Chinese ladies, there’s also the pop culture of MOSTING. This is when your future partner-to-be does anything and everything to convince you that you’re “the one” and then suddenly vanishes into thin air…

So as not to be caught off-guard by these behaviors when single women dating, here’s how to avoid getting blind-sided:

  1. First of all, understand that mosting belongs to the same hierarchy as ghosting. You are constantly showered with compliments and praises, thus, making you believe that the person is so into you. You are made to feel like you have a deep and special connection with this person, and that you’re rare, unique, and above the rest. Unfortunately, it isn’t so.
  2. For someone who’s seriously looking for a lifetime relationship with single Chinese women, being ghosted and mosted can be a painful experience. It will surely leave you feeling hurt, used, and confused.
  3. Stop blaming yourself. Without any explanation, people who get ghosted and mosted are left with the question, “Why?” Or, “What did I do wrong?” and “Did I scare her away?” Well, often enough, it’s usually less about being scared and more about not having cared.
  4. Ghosting and mosting can happen to both men and women. It’s not only young Chinese girls who get wined and dined, and then stood up on the next date for seemingly no particular reason. After having tackled a number of intimate conversations and fallen head over heels with his Chinese date, a guy might get knocked down by the fact that he’s never going to see her again.

 chnlove antiscam,sexy Chinese ladies,

  1. As to why ghosting and mosting happen, highest on the list would be the payoffs that people get from casual sex. Wanting to hook up casually with someone they see on a Chinese beautiful girl photobut not having the guts to say they’re not dating seriously, they resort to the usual tricks of the trade; these are guile and flattery. So, although it feels very flattering, indeed, to have this one attractive person so into you, looks can be very deceiving!
  2. Other than the lure of casual sex, people who ghost and most are also led by certain behavioral patterns. Out of longstanding habit, they’ve gotten so used to getting what they want without necessarily bonding or attaching to the other person. Accustomed to avoidance behavior, they start to distance themselves from you once the relationship feels too real and too close for comfort.
  3. Lastly, if you’re someone who’s prone to ghosting and mosting people, then do yourself and the other person a favor. It takes a little more honesty to be straightforward about your intentions. If you’re upfront as an adult about wanting to get laid, then you let the other person consciously make the same choice, without being played. Owe it to yourself to be honest with sexy Chinese girls, before you bail out on them or they bail out on you.
24
May

Attention: Single Chinese Women Hate To Date Such Man

Last weekend, I had a dinner with several close female friends. They are Chinese-born beautiful ladies. During the dinner, we talked about dating Chinese girls and what women in China like and dislike when they are asked out by men. My friends shared their own experience and the typical stories of their friends. Now I have made a summary and work out several DON’T that men should avoid when dating Chinese women. Hope it helpful to you guys.

Single Chinese Women Don’t Like Talkative Men

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Chinese women do not like talkative men

According to vast dating tips from the network, you are suggested to be positive and active, lead the conversation with interesting topics in order to avoid embarrassing silence. And that is not wrong, but make sure you are not overactive or talking too much. Remember it is communication, not a speech. You need to exchange ideas with her and get more understanding of each other. Besides, women themselves love speaking. They would rather find a boyfriend who is willing to hear her gossips. In China, many good looking girls tend to find this kind of men, who are plain, of medium height and maybe get a not high wage. Why? The majority of these men have nice personalities and they are a very good listener. So if you want to wake up her interest on you, then listen more to her and tell her your opinion and suggestion properly. Kids draw attention by endless speaking and jumping, but men by appropriate silence.

No! No! No!

Do you give a lot of NO or negative answers to a woman’s question? I suggest you should never do that any more. No one likes to find a boyfriend standing on the opposite site and expressing no approval all the time. And also Chinese ladies want to be pleased and favored. If you keep giving negative reactions to her, she may not show any resentful feeling during the date, but you will never see her again after that. However, it does not mean that you should Yes to all her ideas. It is alright to give a different opinion but in a gentle way instead of a forcing way. Do not begin your sentence with “I don’t think…”, “No, I…” or “But…”. Try these “Yes, you are right. And I …” ” You really have a special viewpoint on this. Most people just believe that…”. Be nice and gentle and ladies will be attracted by you.

Miserly, Excessively Frugal With Money.

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Arrange a romantic Chinese date for her

I think it is a basic manner to buy woman a meal. A date is not just about talking and exchanging ideas. She will grade you by your behaviours. What you order for a meal and your attitude to spend money always have an important effect on her decision to go out again with you. China lady pays so much attention to this not because she worship rich men. In her eyes, if the guy is excessively frugal with money, he must be a mean selfish man. So order some drinks and food at reasonable price and pay the bill forwardly for a successful Chinese date.

Of course, there are still some common dating rules suitable for dating Chinese girls. For example never be late for the appointment. Bring flowers or small gifts to her. In short , I really  hope you can benefit from my tips and wish you a successful date with your Chinese girl.