If you’re seeking Chinese women for marriage, for casual dating or for friendship, you might want to try one of the many Asian dating sites out there. On these sites, you would be amazed to see a great number of very attractive Chinese women who are eager to find a Western husband. You would probably wonder why on earth they would like to marry someone who couldn’t even speak their language. As a guy who has been around the Chinese community for nearly 10 years, I think I can shed some light on this question.
Attractive Qualities of Western Men Compared to Chinese Men
Chinese women want love, respect and something more than what is commonly found in their own country. In the eyes of many Chinese women, Western men have lots of great qualities that are rarely found in Chinese men, and that is exactly what attract them. Western men are generally considered to be more romantic, thoughtful, respectful, and appreciative than their Chinese counterparts. A well-educated Western gentleman will always respect and appreciate his partner, and will try to surprise her every now and then with flowers and presents, which is rare among Chinese men.
In fact, many Chinese women who are seeking foreign husbands had some unpleasant experiences with Chinese men in their past. Although things have changed a lot nowadays, many Chinese men still hold the old fashioned values, thinking men are superior to women. As husbands, they rarely show any or much respect to their wives. This is particularly common in rural and less-developed areas of China.
Divorced and Older Chinese Women
Chinese women have a hard time finding a suitable husband once they are over the age of 30. Today these women are being called “leftover women”. Even if they’re beautiful and have a successful career, they are still considered undesirable as a wife. Being a divorced woman in China, especially divorced with a child from a former marriage, is even worse. The chance of them finding a suitable partner is close to zero. Even divorced Chinese men will mostly be interested in much younger women. Very rarely will he look for a new wife in his own age range. This may sound ridiculous and totally unfair, but sadly it is the reality in China.
That’s why so many Chinese women want to try international dating on the Internet. If you manage to find the right one for you, it may just be the best move you have ever made in your life.