20
Jun

ChnLove Chinese online dating review

Like any foreigner looking to meet a Chinese wife, I’m trying online dating. I’ve spent hundreds of hours and dollars browsing online dating websites just to meet the perfect Chinese lady to put a ring on her finger.

So far, my search continues, but I’ve accumulated enough online dating wisdom to put it together and share my online dating experience. I’ve been on this long journey for 4 years. That’s 2 serious relationships with two sexy Chinese women that unfortunately didn’t work out and 1 marriage that… well, I ruined it.

I’ve been a victim of online dating scams, I had a few hundred dollars stolen from me because I was foolish enough to click the wrong link from this fake Chinese lady that tricked me into thinking that she was in love with me… Listen, I’ve been through it all.

Chinese lady

I’ve seen fake and real Chinese women, I’ve been offered pay-for-sex deals by Chinese hookers. I’ve chatted with women that refused to talk via Webcam Live Chat because… well, the people I chatted with weren’t the women on their online dating profiles.

Been there, done that. Seen that, experienced it all. As I can’t take back all those years I lost in the online dating world, I don’t regret anything. Because now I’m able to share my wisdom and experience with other people venturing out into the mysterious, and oftentimes not-so-pretty world of online dating.

This was my impression about online dating until I signed up on ChnLove. “Oh, another online dating China website with fake ladies… Bring it on!” I thought. Much to my surprise, ChnLove turned out to be the most decent and the most REAL online dating service that exists on the Internet today.

Yes, it’s a little bit expensive, but I think paying a bit more for the actual opportunity to browse through authentic China lady profiles is better than spending a bit less and not being sure if the person you’re chatting with is even a woman!

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One of the things I like about ChnLove the most is that it offers its own translation services, which makes it much easier to interact with Chinese ladies. Most other Chinese online dating services don’t have that — but they definitely should.

Because let me tell you something: it’s not fun to be reading obviously-Google translated sentences by a Chinese lady who speaks little to no English and then sit there like an idiot for hours trying to decipher what the hell she means there? Is it a ‘yes’ or is that a ‘no’?

Anyway, that ridiculous Google translate circus ended when I started using ChnLove, and it became much easier for me to interact with Chinese ladies. So it’s definitely a big PLUS for ChnLove.

I had certain reservations about ChnLove when I signed up there, as I’ve been reading all kinds of comments on the Internet claiming ChnLove was a ‘scam’ website.

Well, from my point of view – the point of view of a person who has tried at least 5 other Chinese online dating services over the years – ChnLove is the least ‘scam’ than all other online dating platforms out there.

Sure, there are still scammers on ChnLove trying to steal your personal information and/or money, but aren’t they everywhere? That’s the world today: people are trying to scam you in every way possible.

But what’s most notable is that while I was ripped off on other online dating websites, I’ve never been a victim of any type of scam on ChnLove. You can’t really blame any dating site for there are no right people for you or your date there scammed you. I mean, it happens. Especially if you don’t be alert.

There are plenty of gold diggers and prostitutes out there – but most Chinese women I’ve chatted with on ChnLove (and that’s over 20 ladies) were authentic, as I usually ask for real-life pictures and chat with them via webcam to ensure that the lady is real.

I’ve had enough of that fake bullshit on other online dating websites, which is why I encourage other users to follow my strategy of spotting fakes on ChnLove.

These two years that I’ve been using ChnLove I have not received any suspicious link or file that could steal my personal data if I clicked on it. So that means ChnLove actually keeps an eye on that sort of stuff and verifies the profiles of Chinese women.

My best anti scam strategy on every online dating website is this (and it never ever failed me): (1) don’t click on suspicious links or download suspicious files and (2) don’t fall in love with women before you confirm she is real.

That can be done by asking the girl to send real-life, natural pics as well as by chatting via webcam with her. After you’ve made sure that she’s a real person, feel free to fall in love and take a plane to China to meet her.

My search for Chinese wife continues, but I can feel that ChnLove is the right online dating service to help me find my perfect lady – as I don’t want to waste no more time on other services out there. I’m 42 after all – it’s time to settle!!

14
Jun

Surprising Dating Facts from Dating Apps: All Men are Attracted to Asian Women

sexy hot Chinese womenNot only is race a major factor in many people’s dating interests, but certain races get excessively high amounts of interest compared to others. This is according to a recent study that was carried out across a number of popular dating apps. One of the most surprising and intriguing findings of this study is that most men across all races are attracted to Asian women. Do you like Chinese women? if your answer is in the affirmative, you are one among many who are said to have been infected with “Yellow Fever”.

By yellow fever, we don’t mean the potentially fatal viral hemorrhagic disease spread by mosquitoes, but rather a strong liking for Chinese girls. This term is characteristic of men who prefer Asian women to other races. As a matter of fact, there are many Chinese dating sites specifically customized for men looking for this special kind of breed.hot Chinese women

The real question here is not whether men from different races prefer Asian damsels, but why? Well, the answer differs depending on who the question is directed to. Some men argue that the reason why they are into sexy hot Chinese women is because Asian women are more submissive, tame and docile compared their counterparts from other races. Another group of men claim that their liking is a harmless preference solely on the basis of physical appearance, not dissimilar than a liking for brunettes or blonds.

If you have been fantasizing about dating Chinese ladies, you probably have your reasons as to why you prefer this particular race over others. One thing that is for sure is that Asian women are extremely gorgeous. While it may not be true to say that all of them are submissive and docile, it is true to say that most of them are that way, especially if you look at the right places. One ideal place to find only the most submissive single Chinese girls is on an authentic dating site.

You are probably looking for tips on how to date Chinese girls. Good news is that dating an Asian girl isn’t a complex phenomenon. Just join a trusted dating site, sign up, upload your pictures and you will be ready to go. Further studies show that Asian women are the most popular on most dating sites. If you would like to narrow your search to Chinese women only, you can sign up to a reputable Chinese dating site.

After a successful sign up, you will be able to view China sexy girl pictures. The good thing about looking for love on a trusted Chinese dating site is that the photos you see there belong to real people. This means that what you see is exactly what you get. Take your time to go through the profiles and behold the sight of the beautiful damsels in display. Once you get one that you are physically attracted to, you can initiate a chat and find out if the single Chinese girl is a charmer.

Another important lesson you should learn when initiating a chat with an Asian lady involves familiarizing yourself on how to date Chinese girls. The good thing about Asian women is that they are not snobs. Not unless you are a complete jerk, you can expect to have a good response. Be natural, address her with respect, reveal your sense of humor, shower her with compliments, etc. In other words, up your ‘A’ game! In the end, you will find out to your amazement that dating Chinese girls is probably the most rewarding accomplishment you will ever make as far as achieving relationship goals is concerned.

27
May

ChnLove Guide – Find Matured Chinese Ladies to Date

30+Chinese ladies on Chnlove.com

Date 30+ Beautiful Chinese Ladies on ChnLove.com!

Every man wants to find a young and beautiful girl to date or marry, which is also the dream and desire of ChnLove male members. As an online dating expert, I think in a different way. If you want to increase the success rate, you should find the matured ladies to date, especially you are seeking Chinese women for marriage on ChnLove.com.

Different from the young girls who are online dating for fun or killing loneliness, the matured ladies hold a more sincere attitude in finding a lifetime partner. In China, a 30+ lady is bearing great pressures from the society and the family staff. If a Chinese lady remains single when she is over 27, she is labeled ‘Leftover Woman’tag which indicates that she is hard to find a good man. That’s why there are more and more matured Chinese ladies turn their targets to western gentlemen while selecting a lifetime partner.

There are many advantages when you are dating a matured Chinese lady.

First of all, she is holding a serious and sincere attitude to find a Mr. Right via ChnLove.com. Without too much time to waste, she is keen to meet a man who has the same target as her – Finding the right person for marriage. She is not playing with you! She needs a sincere right guy to build up a family!

Second, a matured lady gets ready to deal with filial piety and she could it very well. With matured thoughts, she perfectly understands your parents, what they require and then find a good solution to cater to their needs. What’s more, the matured lady get good preparation to give birth to babies instantly after marriage. If you are a man who is keen to get married and upgrade yourself to be a father, then find a 30+ Chinese lady to start romantic relationship on Chnlove.com.

Third, she can keep a good balance between work and family. Should a woman stay at home to become a fulltime wife after marriage or continue to have her own work? It’s a question mostly concerned by men! To reach a perfect conclusion, I personally suggest a married woman having a good balance between work and family. It is not contradictive! Instead, a wife having a considerable income can certainly assist the husband and release his economic burden.

On ChnLove, it is very easy to contact a matured Chinese lady as long as you assure this kind of lady is what you really want. Locate the lady circle by the Advanced Search and then select the exact dating services including EMF Mail, Live Chat, Love Call and Cupid Date based on your own needs to contact them. With time, honesty and patience, I am sure you will finally bring your princess home. It is just a matter of time!

About ChnLove

Chnlove.com - #1 Trusted Online Dating Site in Asia

Chnlove.com – #1 Trusted Online Dating Site in Asia

ChnLove is currently one of the largest leading international online dating platforms in Asia. Since the establishment in 1998, it has successfully assisted thousands of its male members to seek the perfect matches within mainland China. Cooperated with local matchmaking agencies in more than 30 major cities, ChnLove will continue to attract more sincere single gentlemen with a secure dating environment, effective and friendly-used communication tools and terrific customer services.

14
Mar

Show Your Honesty and Gain Trust When Dating Chinese Girls

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Who likes being cheated? No-one, and that includes Chinese girls. Keeping your honesty increases your chances to finally win her. Once a Chinese girl starts to trust you, the succeeding steps become easier to surpass. Trust is gained by being honest.

Chinese women will not necessarily say what they are feeling. They are more likely to show you how they feel about you through their actions. Chinese women may look after you by buying things or making you good food. They may help you choose an outfit and help you to look good, or they will look after you if you are sick. This is how they express their affection as they may be too shy to express their deeper feelings. When she trusts you completely she will tell you how she feels.

Always be truthful. Even in the situations where even a small lie could get you out of lots of trouble, don’t do it. Your Chinese girl will find out about everything you do and you will not get away with it.

Make sure she finds out first above anybody if you have done anything to mess up. Anytime you hear something bad that your partner did before they tell you, you always presume worse than what it actually is. Friends always distort the truth to your girlfriend, and eventually the truth will get out. It’s always better to hear first-hand what happened, and to seek forgiveness then.

Make sure you trust her. Without your trust for your Chinese lady, she definitely won’t be able to trust you. To know if you trust her, think of situations you would want to do, and if you could see your girlfriend doing those same things. For instance if you wanted to hang out with some girls at the mall, see if you could imagine her doing the same thing with guys. If not, then understand that some things fall beyond trust, including putting yourself into tempting situations.

Keep your promises. To do this, make sure your promises are realistic, and you are willing to follow through before making them. If you are not able to, don’t promise or it will cause more hurt than anything. Promises could be small or large in perspective but realize that making a promise is long term and can affect both you and her future.

2
Jan

How to Impress Your Chinese Girl on Your First Date?

First Date Tips-ChnLove Review

Preparing for a date with a Chinese lady but are worried about how to behave and make a good impression? Maybe you’ve been on plenty of dates in your lifetime and you think you’re an expert on dating and have tons of experience, but you can’t apply of it when dating a Chinese girl as there are some differences. Here are some main points which you’ll need to bear in mind to make a good impression on your Chinese lady:

Avoid a traditional date

You shouldn’t try to date a Chinese girl. That means, don’t try the traditional dating moves. A dinner, movie, an occasional goodnight kiss and the no more calls from her. This comes with too much pressure, expectations and awkwardness. This is what every one else has been doing with her. Try something easier and less conventional. Something like just meeting for coffee, no big set up or preparations. She is less prepared and expectant. The atmosphere is less charged, more relaxed and thus more fun without the usual dating expectations. Besides, you want to be able to talk and get to know this person.

Prepare a small gift for her

Flowers always have the magic to make your girl happy, so it’s highly recommended to bring her flowers. Stick with roses, lilies, or orchids. As dating is a serious thing for Chinese girls, it’s a good idea is to buy a vase with the flowers as this will represent a permanent gift that she can keep and she’ll know that you are serious about her.

Remember to behave like a gentleman

Chinese girls already give foreigners credit for knowing how to be gentlemen, so don’t miss the chance to prove this point. Give a hand to your girl to help her out of the taxi, open the door in front of her etc. That will definitely make her feel happy and proud.

Don’t be Mr. Goody-Goody

Don’t be Mr. Goody-Goody. Be a bit naughty – throw in unexpected and mischievous remarks to leave her wondering if you just said that. Don’t over-do it but do show her you are over impressed with her looks. Naughty statements and actions leave them wondering more about the kind of guy you are.

Less is more

Every guy tries to get a Chinese woman out on a date and impress her with detailed “rap” or speech moves. The truth is she’s heard it all before in many variations and versions. In this case less is more. The less you try to impress her, the more the Chinese girl is impressed. Try listening to her and getting her talk about herself. All you need is a small degree of interest. This throws her off guard as you are different and challenging, and Chinese girls like being challenged.

Honesty is the best policy

Honesty is also a quality that is highly respected in the Chinese society. A man of honor doesn’t lie and doesn’t abandon his responsibilities. If you wish to impress a Chinese girl you have to prove to her that you can be such a man of honor.

Show interest in her family Chinese women put a very high priority on family so showing interest in and bringing up conversation about that topic is a good hot button with her. It sure would boost the possibility of your success.

Listen to her suggestions

Let’s say you decided to go to Chinese restaurant. Hand the menu to your girl and listen to her suggestions. Don’t be surprised with the Chinese custom to order many dishes during meals – usually lunch or dinner will comprise two dishes with meat, one vegetable dish and a bowl of soup. And if you eat hot-pot – then it might be served with 5-10 different supplements!

Shave properly and avoid using strong perfume

You should shave properly and in case that nature gifted you with rich hairiness – consider carefully the style of T-shirt that you wear for the date. Also, avoid using strong perfume. In most cases, a little goes a long way. Chinese girls’ noses are very sensitive and they might make paradoxical conclusions about your reasons to use strong fragrances.

The bottom line is Chinese women really aren’t that much different from other women. The only difference is most other women like this sort of good behavior and chivalry but they don’t expect it whereas a Chinese woman does expected and demand it. Chinese women generally have very high self-esteem and very high values for themselves so they won’t tolerate being treated badly. To ensure the date is successful just make sure you are a complete gentleman and a nice guy and make her the focus of the night.

28
Nov

Always Choose Younger Chinese Women For Marriage?

 

Chinese women for marraige

Choose mature Chinese women for marriage on Chnlove.com!(Joan here, profile ID:P937212)

According to Chinese traditional, younger Chinese brides always receive higher value. Chinese men often discriminate against single women of 28 years and older. And an increasing number of single Chinese women has chosen to delay marriage to pursue higher education, which makes more and more Chinese girls leftover and difficult to find a husband. However, is it true that younger Chinese women always the best choices? Shall the single men always choose younger Chinese women for marriage? I don’t think so!

Chinese marriage market is now strained with Chinese women outnumbering women four to one. Plus modern Chinese women become more independent and well-educated, it greatly reduces men’s option! Since then, why not take Chinese ladies of 28 years and older into consideration? With well education, these ladies can maintain the family in a better way, and can certainly help the men in feeding the family.

Especially in China’s current economic environment, with the standard of living skyrocketing and the housing market demanding an am an a leg, a marriage with two financially stable individuals would definitely be far better than one that depends on only one earner. With such a social background, a matured and successful woman makes better marriage partner.

Elder women choose to spend the good times to better themselves by pursuing higher education, which helps to mold them become well-adjusted individuals. The ups and downs in the process of pursuing their goals assist them to develop the kind of strength of character and maturity which make them better lifetime partners than they would have been otherwise.

That’s to say, these women don’t loose their charm. Instead, they have their own advantages because they used these years wisely to make more out of themselves so that they have more to offer to whoever deserving to0 be their lifetime partners. Maturity gained through time and experiences is the key to successful marriage.

Therefore, younger Chinese women are not always the better options as a lifetime partner, especially in modern society. They are still young and don’t know how to handle obstacles and difficulties wisely and maturely. They have an unsteady heart and can’t resist any lures. A younger partner in a marriage may seem suitable initially, bu the years may still make this person change to a point that would make her/him less ideal to the other. Instead, a more mature and experienced person would provide more stability and performance to any marriage since they have already grown into who she or he really is!

In a word, younger women are not always the best options as lifetime partners. It depends on individuals. Suppose you are a man with a good economic background and you just want a younger lady to accompany you, then you can choose one from the younger beauties. If you are still a man who is striving for career and house, then I highly suggest finding a mature and well-educated who has the same goal with you and can walk forward with side by side!

12
Nov

Secrets to Hook Up Chinese Girls When Dating Online

 

Single Chinese Girls Online

Meet beautiful single Chinese laides online, just like her!

 

Most countries in the world have been exposed a great deal to what could be called ‘western culture’, or even now, what might be called ‘world culture’. This, however, is still not the case where China is concerned. The vast majority of Chinese girls born in mainland China for example, have a psychology that is very firmly rooted in their own culture. Actions and words that most of the other countries girls would find flattering or attractive, Chinese girls can find unattractive, and even sometimes insulting. From my own experience of dating western born Chinese girls and western women I’d have to say mainland Chinese females can be some of the most perplexing of females on the planet.

Are you the guy who is using a dating site to meet and date Chinese women for marriage? Are you often thinking about how to better your date with the single online Chinese girl you are in touch and how to set up a successful relationship with her? If yes, check the below top secrets for dating single Chinese women online.

Be dominant and direct – Chinese girls are naturally (usually) quite timid due to their strict upbringing, so they really respond well to a firm and authoritative manner, even more so than the average western woman. It’s important to be very dominant and direct, but also respectful at the same time.

Take your time – most Chinese women won’t give it up in the first correspondence, so you need to work for it over a few weeks. Get to know them, build deep levels of rapport and connection through EMF mail. Chinese girls love the whole fairy tale story because they are very romantic and soppy at heart, so concentrate on building a strong connection with them. Then move on to Live Chat, meeting up etc.

Ask good questions – this is a rule that applies to interacting in person as well, but it’s especially important in dating Chinese girls for marriage online because sometimes it can be hard to get people to reply to you (whether due to the massive amounts of mail they get everyday or simply because they don’t know how to respond to your introduction. Asking a few intelligent, well thought out questions, however, gives the Chinese woman a reason to respond, while at the same time showing something about yourself. Asking good questions can help you steer the conversation and help you know better about each other.

There are certain things you should NEVER do when around Chinese ladies:

Don’t tell her you have a “thing” for Chinese girls – this is the lamest thing you can ever say. It sounds weird – she will know you want her for sex, so don’t say it.

Don’t put her on a pedestal – it’s important to treat all women the same, otherwise you’re going to treat them differently to other women, which obviously makes you look needy.

Don’t talk about Chinese stereotypes – Talking about strict parents is boring and falls under the “no go” stereotypes, not to mention they are extremely frustrating to her as she’s heard them a thousand times before.

Don’t try to impress her with stupid Chinese related “facts” – do you think she cares about how many bicycles there are in Beijing? Of course not, so don’t reel of useless facts, they will just deter her.

Don’t be too shy or reserved – remember, when she doesn’t respond it’s not because she doesn’t like you, it’s because she’s shy, so you need to be the dominant one.

As I mentioned before, you’ll likely have to chat to a lot of ladies before you find the right Chinese bride. The good part is, you will be able to move on quickly, and so will they, and you should jump right back into the fray and try again. Persistence is a virtue with online dating and looking for your right Chinese wife, and being able to quickly acknowledge that something isn’t going to work will allow both of you to get back to your computers and strike up something new with the right Chinese woman for marriage.

29
Oct

Tips to Find Asian Women For Love & Marriage

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Finding an Asian woman for love or marriage is not that difficult as we imagine, especially in modern world. Thanks to the comprehensive usage of internet, it’s very easy to find an Asian girl for love or marriage, via a fast and effective way-Online Dating which has become a trend in modern matchmaking market. Frankly speaking, online dating does work if it’s used in a correct way! Today, we will narrow our topic on how to find Asian women for love and marriage online.

First of all, you should begin with a reliable Asian dating site. It’s a step of great importance since it decides your dating success rate. A reputable Asian dating site brings you quality and real Asian beauties, effective and friendly-used dating services, secure dating environment and professional, excellent customer service crews. To become a member of reputable Asian dating platform, just like ChnLove or iDateAsia, you will definitely have a happy and satisfying dating experience. However, how to find a reliable Asian dating site? Below tips could do a certain favor to you!

For the freshmen in online dating, you can input the related keywords like ‘Asian dating sites’, ‘Asian women for marriage’ or ‘dating Asian girls’ in Google Searching Bar, and then select the sites which are listed at top 3, then make a comparison by further seeking the details. Just choose the one receiving a good customer satisfaction.

After signing up to become a member of a reliable Asian dating site, you should try your best to create a unique and personalized dating profile. Different from face-to-face dating, your profile is the only source for the potential daters to know about you. Therefore, you should make efforts on this part. First, upload a profile image which can best present you. It’s the best to upload enough life pictures which are clearly taken,  to give people more chances to understand you. Second, write a personalized profile description. You can focus your attention to express who you are, what you like and what kind of person you are looking for.

With your profile completed, the next step is to take initiative to seek your dreamed Asian girl for love or marriage. You might receive a certain number of letters from the lady members after signing up, but all of them might not be the lady of your desire. You can have a check first. While if there is none of your style, you can take initiative to seek for your dreamed Asian lady! Once you have found her, select the dating services based on your own needs to build a connection with her! By this step, you have almost been successful!

Online dating is not a fraud. Instead, it’s an effective way if used in a correct way. Bearing above tips in mind, you tend to find your dreamed Asian girl. It’s just a matter of time!