Cinderella Marriage: Chinese Woman Marrying Presidential Candidate

Internet becomes an essential part in life. It is the most popular and important way for people to communicate with each other. You search resources for work, watch sports, have a video chat with your family, discuss with your friends and even find yourself a Chinese wife through the Internet. So amazing and powerful! Today I want to share a real Cinderella story which comes to reality with the help of Internet.
Wu Mulan, a China woman, used to work in a garment factory as an ordinary worker in Shenzhen, a city located in the southern China. She left her hometown to Shenzhen with her little daughter after she got divorced with her ex-husband more than ten years ago and struggled to live a better life in that lonely place. In 2003, she did well in work and life became stable and then her daughter had been a thirteen-year-old girl who could take care of herself. So she began thinking to find a lifetime partner. Then this Chinese single mother signed up in an Asian dating website to look for her second marriage. However, she never thought that she could met such a great man and became a wife of a Polish presidential candidate.
On the other hand, Stanislaw Tyminski, a Polish man long settled in Canada, had participated in the 1990 Polish presidential election and became the second strongest and promising candidate and also in the 2005 presidential election made himself the first offical candidate, by now he occupies an important position in Polish political arena. Before the wonderful encounter with his China love, he had gone through two marriages firstly with a Finnish girl and secondly with a Peruvian woman, from which he had got four children. Perhaps it is the same unhappy experience on marriage and both becoming single parent that make them feel right to each other.
” I had no idea on surfing online and also knew little about English at that time.” Wu Mulan talked about the difficulty she met during her Internet dating. She first asked her friends to translate emails for her and later she did not want to bother her friends to much and decided to write the emails by herself with the help of some translation software. Apart from that, Stanislaw used to demand a video chat with Wu, but she always refused that. She explained that she did not want him to judge her by her appearance and moreover she was incapable of chatting in English.  Although all these tough things they had gone through and they sometimes had misunderstanding because of the language barrier and cultural difference, the China lady and her Polish husband bravely overcame so much things and finally got together after two years communication.
They are now living in a four-story villa with their five daughters and sons in downtown Toronto. In an interview, Wu Mulan talked about their current life after the marriage. She goes to language school to improve English, and after school she does some housework and cooks meals for Stanislaw and their boys and girls. Sometimes they still have got problems on language and cultural differences. However, Wu Mulan said that communication does not necessarily rely on language. It is love that works in a communication and relationship.
What a beautiful and romantic transnational marriage! Two people from different country and different culture background got to know each other and become couple through a Chinese dating site. And I just want to say that love is without border, love can be everywhere, including online dating service.

Chinese wife and her Polish husband

Wu Mulan and Stanislaw

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